Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I got a lapsus and I told a girl "we can be friends", Am I totally scrub??

parabellum

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Ill try to give my best writing in English.

There is a girl who I like a lot(classmate).. a couple months ago (just before vacations) I invited her to a hike, she accepted and everything was going ok..the day before the hike she text me asking me if she could brings a friend (another girl) to the date.. I was like :nono: ..well we talk a little about and I decided to cut it off.. bang! no date, no more texts no more anything from her or from me.. I just went to the beach for a good vacations with another girls, another people...

When class starts I was like nothing happened..she even ask me about and I told her ..what are u talking? in a good mood and I left.... From there the contact its normal, but i was trying to be cold with her..

Now yesterday she text me some hilarious thing... she text me asking me about something in class..which is funny because she is a VERY good student and I was the one used to ask these things...

Anyway..for some weird reason I just knew the answers..I just respond her and in that point I remember that I'm not doing well in physics II so I told her "lets study next week"...She said yes and said Friday....I said No, better Thursday..she accepted.

Then she wrote me: are you still angry for the last time? and bang...here comes the freaking lapsus, I wrote this:

"Yeah, I hate you till your death! jajajaj nah just kidding, if you didn't said anything about that I wasn't even remember that, we can be friends"


then she says that she was glad blablabla because that she likes how I am etc..

Here I just decided to cut it off and said: ok me too , see you later, g´ night sweet dreams


now Im just wondering why he11 I said that in red.. and how could I keep advancing on her after that..

Ill really like to read your opinions


peace
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ecko280

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I told girls we can be friends before, and i end up f**king them. When your with her alone, you need to man up and kiss her. That's when you will know the answer.
 
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