"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got a lapsus and I told a girl "we can be friends", Am I totally scrub??

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parabellum

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Ill try to give my best writing in English.

There is a girl who I like a lot(classmate).. a couple months ago (just before vacations) I invited her to a hike, she accepted and everything was going ok..the day before the hike she text me asking me if she could brings a friend (another girl) to the date.. I was like :nono: ..well we talk a little about and I decided to cut it off.. bang! no date, no more texts no more anything from her or from me.. I just went to the beach for a good vacations with another girls, another people...

When class starts I was like nothing happened..she even ask me about and I told her ..what are u talking? in a good mood and I left.... From there the contact its normal, but i was trying to be cold with her..

Now yesterday she text me some hilarious thing... she text me asking me about something in class..which is funny because she is a VERY good student and I was the one used to ask these things...

Anyway..for some weird reason I just knew the answers..I just respond her and in that point I remember that I'm not doing well in physics II so I told her "lets study next week"...She said yes and said Friday....I said No, better Thursday..she accepted.

Then she wrote me: are you still angry for the last time? and bang...here comes the freaking lapsus, I wrote this:

"Yeah, I hate you till your death! jajajaj nah just kidding, if you didn't said anything about that I wasn't even remember that, we can be friends"


then she says that she was glad blablabla because that she likes how I am etc..

Here I just decided to cut it off and said: ok me too , see you later, g´ night sweet dreams


now Im just wondering why he11 I said that in red.. and how could I keep advancing on her after that..

Ill really like to read your opinions


peace
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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I told girls we can be friends before, and i end up f**king them. When your with her alone, you need to man up and kiss her. That's when you will know the answer.
 
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