I need some help, Im with this girl everyday, from the buss to school.. and from school to home.. so the problem here is, that i dont know what to talk about, its so boring to ask the same question everyday "how ur doing", "how was ur day, did you do someting fun(on home) and she answare with this "good, you" and after that im ****ed.. gooood pliiz help..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I go with this Girl everyday
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Grandmaster Sexay
Don Juan
Mmm, I know. It's difficult having to use phrases that are so predicatable and mundane and quite frankly, doesn't get you very far.
It needs to be surreal, unexpected and relevant at the time. Likewise, the success rate would be higher. This is what I thought I would try or you.
I take the newspaper everyday (broadsheet), and was thought of an idea. If there was a picture that was sweet, or is likely to generate interest, then it might be a good idea to strike up a conversation about it. In many ways, it opens the mind to different perceptions, and from there, you have an advantage once you get going.
It's unique, and of course, only works if there's picture worth talking about!. Pickup a good paper (not tabloid), and see if there's one. Try it.
It needs to be surreal, unexpected and relevant at the time. Likewise, the success rate would be higher. This is what I thought I would try or you.
I take the newspaper everyday (broadsheet), and was thought of an idea. If there was a picture that was sweet, or is likely to generate interest, then it might be a good idea to strike up a conversation about it. In many ways, it opens the mind to different perceptions, and from there, you have an advantage once you get going.
It's unique, and of course, only works if there's picture worth talking about!. Pickup a good paper (not tabloid), and see if there's one. Try it.
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Its Not What U Say, But How U Say It!
from my experience, its better to sit there in silence than repeat the same boring convo everyday. Silence is only uncomfortable if you make it uncomfortable.
She's probably sitting there thinking the same **** you are "oh no, what do i say now!" If you just sit there relaxed and cool, the silences wont be as awkward as they obviously are for you at the moment
If you live near each other and she's shown interest by sitting next to u everyday 2 and from school, pretend that ur having trouble with some homework and ask her if she can come over and help you with _________.
Or before ur next exam, see if she wants to study together, then take it from there
Just find out what she's interested in and ask her about it. Ask for her advice on things and ask her to help you with ur homewrok. Most girls love helping ppl out
She's probably sitting there thinking the same **** you are "oh no, what do i say now!" If you just sit there relaxed and cool, the silences wont be as awkward as they obviously are for you at the moment
If you live near each other and she's shown interest by sitting next to u everyday 2 and from school, pretend that ur having trouble with some homework and ask her if she can come over and help you with _________.
Or before ur next exam, see if she wants to study together, then take it from there
Just find out what she's interested in and ask her about it. Ask for her advice on things and ask her to help you with ur homewrok. Most girls love helping ppl out
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ofc i m intressted in her,, its just thati hate to use the same question.. ofc i dont ALWAYS use those question always.. If we have something special on school i ask her ofc about te spec..
im not sure.. but i think she are intressted in me.. cuz SHE DO KINO alot on me.. Givme hug, tikkeling or what it calls on me, grab my yeah you know
..
but its just that its so fking hard to have a convo.. She tells a story or something happend yesterday.. im trying to listen and trying to find some words she use.. osv.. but its just I SUCK!! i always lead it to a "QUESTION" i realyrealy want NOT to ask her question
its easy to ask her question but the otherthing...((( emm the answare.. More than just yes and no.. i want my answare to be loonger.. i want my settnings to be loonger.. if you guys understnad what i mean
im not sure.. but i think she are intressted in me.. cuz SHE DO KINO alot on me.. Givme hug, tikkeling or what it calls on me, grab my yeah you know
.. but its just that its so fking hard to have a convo.. She tells a story or something happend yesterday.. im trying to listen and trying to find some words she use.. osv.. but its just I SUCK!! i always lead it to a "QUESTION" i realyrealy want NOT to ask her question
its easy to ask her question but the otherthing...
((( emm the answare.. More than just yes and no.. i want my answare to be loonger.. i want my settnings to be loonger.. if you guys understnad what i meanmm. its not therefor im her.. its the "conversation" IM not ASKING FOR WHAT TO DO NEXT.. sure ican just go with her now and do it but ITS MY CONVo on the buss.. Im not the guy who just have sex with the girl and just ****off.. thats baaad.. cuz if i do that.. well she might tell that to the othergirls ..
so. IM NOT asking for what to do next but what to talk about.. how should i start.. what should i start when i meet her on the buss.. osvvv
so. IM NOT asking for what to do next but what to talk about.. how should i start.. what should i start when i meet her on the buss.. osvvv
i'm finding it hard to understand what ur saying in ur posts, but the message i'm getting is that theres a girl whos been grabbing ur c*ck on a regular basis, showing the most OBVIOUS sign of sexual attraction i've ever heard of, and u refuse to fvck her because ur worried about what she might say to other girls? wow....
firstly, u can fvck a girl then start a serious relationship later on, but u might not be able to do it the other way around. Where did i say u had to fvck her then leave her?
2nd, u WANT her to go tell her girlfriends what happened after u fvck her. If ur a good fvck, she'll tell them and you'll have her friends interested in u 2, which cant be bad
3rd (this probably cancels out everything else), the reason you find it hard to talk to her is because... *drum roll*
SHE IS MORE INTERESTED IN GRABBING UR C*CK AND JUMPING ALL OVER U THAN TALKING ABOUT HOW MUCH HOMEWORK SHE FVCKING DID LAST NITE
come on lafual
firstly, u can fvck a girl then start a serious relationship later on, but u might not be able to do it the other way around. Where did i say u had to fvck her then leave her?
2nd, u WANT her to go tell her girlfriends what happened after u fvck her. If ur a good fvck, she'll tell them and you'll have her friends interested in u 2, which cant be bad
3rd (this probably cancels out everything else), the reason you find it hard to talk to her is because... *drum roll*
SHE IS MORE INTERESTED IN GRABBING UR C*CK AND JUMPING ALL OVER U THAN TALKING ABOUT HOW MUCH HOMEWORK SHE FVCKING DID LAST NITE
come on lafual