I go limp in condoms

[TheBaconator]

WTF should I do? This happened to me once a couple weeks ago and I didn't know what to attribute it to, figured maybe I was tired or something. Now it happens again but as soon as I take the rubber off i'm ready to go again. I feel conditioned to not get aroused by condoms, I would get more pleasure out of jerking as opposed to fckin with a rubber.

Anyone else have this problem? Any brand suggestions that would be the most pleasurable?

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Yea this happened to me. Turns out I had been having sex with the same girl too much.

Try buying a bottle of lubricant, put some in there. That will definitely help.

 

[TheBaconator]

Yea this happened to me. Turns out I had been having sex with the same girl too much.

Try buying a bottle of lubricant, put some in there. That will definitely help.

She blew me before as a lube, but getting a real lube sounds like a good idea. I know it's not the girl cuz I only had sex with her twice. It's like my **** goes numb when I got the condom on.

 

[AlexTheGreat]

that happened to me as well. i was hard as hell, put the condom on and i go limp. Take it off, I'm a steel rod; put a fresh one on and the same thing happens. Turns out I was not used to the feeling of a condom on my ****, so the pressure and nervousness put me off.

Try jacking off with a condom. At least, you'll get used to the feeling of sexual stimulation with a rubber on. You'll be more comfortable next time when you're with the girl

 

[TheBaconator]

I duno man, when I was younger I couldnt *** from condoms but never went limp in them. Had a gf for about 4 years so got pretty used to raw. I feel like i've been eating filet mignon and now my body doesn't accept anything less.

 

[02hero]

Get her a femidom, I guarantee she won't go limp

 

[itishe]

I've thought of banging hot ex's when banging my girlfriend when I feel like it was going limp. Usually keeps the **** so hard she's moaning so loud in my ear I feel like I'm gonna fill her up like a balloon.

 

[TheBaconator]

Get her a femidom, I guarantee she won't go limp

Best idea yet, thanks man.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Well I tried to understand this when I was having regular sex with the ex. When I took the condom off I would be as hard as a rock and could blow my load several times in one succession. When it was on, the longer I had sex the more limp me keck would get.

The thing is is it's not you that's making you limp - it's PHYSICALLY the condom that's getting you limp and here's why:

If you have a condom on and you're about to blow your load prematurely you'll do things to NOT blow your load. You'll take your penis out of a girl and start to engage in some foreplay. As soon as you calm down your penis goes down a bit. Here's where you go limp: THE CONDOM RESTRICTS YOU FROM GETTING HARDER BECAUSE AS YOU GO LIMP THE CONDOM TIGHTENS AROUND YOUR PENIS. It's almost impossible to get to your hardest state because the condom constricts your from getting harder. It basically has a grip on you.

It's like kung fu. Stay your hardest without skeeting. You'll be a GOD if you can master this.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Try using thinner condoms to see if you feel more of what's going on. Just don't cheap out on them because thin condoms are obviously easier to rip, break, rupture, etc. than normal ones.

 

[AlexTheGreat]

If you have a condom on and you're about to blow your load prematurely you'll do things to NOT blow your load. You'll take your penis out of a girl and start to engage in some foreplay. As soon as you calm down your penis goes down a bit. Here's where you go limp: THE CONDOM RESTRICTS YOU FROM GETTING HARDER BECAUSE AS YOU GO LIMP THE CONDOM TIGHTENS AROUND YOUR PENIS. It's almost impossible to get to your hardest state because the condom constricts your from getting harder. It basically has a grip on you.

That's talking out of your ass. Proof being that I had sex today, and when I put on the condom, I was semi-hard. Started kissing my girl, getting heavier, while I had the condom on, and I got hard as a brick and ready to poke.

I still say your problem is a mental block because of the condom. You're not used to it, so it feels kind of weird and stressful. Just practice with it if you wanna put a rubber and get good at it, or do without and face the risks.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

A couple of solutions:

1. Stop sleeping with girls who don't turn you on enough without having to use viagra to bang them with a condom.

2. Use viagra if you insist on sleeping with girls who you can't stay hard for while using a condom.

3. Buy better condoms. I mean as in finding a brand that best suits you. I avoid some of the more mainstream brands like Trojans, LifeStyles, etc., because they have too much of a "rubbery" feeling, and dry up and feels like you're wearing a baloon. I prefer more of a softer, thiner, "plastic-ie" type of condom, that stays lubricated, over one that rubs like dry rubber.

 

[theunflushables]

First make sure you didnt but the condom with the numbing solution in it.

As far as trying to stay hard without skeeting. Have her get you off before you stick it to her. I am able to go forever when that happens.