"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I give up!

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I get the feeling that theres alot of long term posters on this site who have no intention to self develop themselves. They just want to learn a few tricks and use this tricks and tactics on women and eventually find that the shortcut doesn't work.


Attracting women means you need to be attractive to them or another way of saying it is high value. To be high value you must first believe you are a high value man. Its as simple as changing how you thing and actually waking up from the false reality people believe they live in where they see themselves as not being good enough and then find excuses to fit that false view. Excuses like not good looking enough, not wealthy enough, too short, too fat, too skinny etc etc.


Just as you go to the gym to improve you body improving how you think also involes effort. Put the time into it and you'll definetly get rewarded for it.


Mike32ct said:
If it makes you feel better, I can't remember the last time I've gone on a first date and she returned my calls afterward. The last 10 or 12 blew me off after the first meeting. I'm at the point where I expect to never hear from them or be able to reach them again.

If you expect that to happen it usually happens. DJ's expect the girls to call them back because they know they're worth it. When you have many rejections its easy to see why you'd expect rejection but its a bad mentality to have.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HardTimes said:
Calling bullshyt on this. I have been pursuing my own interests and career for the better party of a year, in addition to trying to pick up women, and the women have not come flocking to me.
Yeah I've gotta call bullsh*t on it as well. Pursuing interests, etc. etc. etc., has done nothing for me with the ladies. I don't know where these guys on the forum get this notion from.
 

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edger, i think the whole point of pursuing interests is pursuing worthwhile interests that you know are important, requires skill, not so you can show it off, but so you can gain confidence knowing that you are skilled in something and that your life is not completely empty... kind of like bodybuilding in a way that gives you confidence in addition to looking physically better..
 
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