"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Give Up

COMPTON

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I work all day long... Starting to develop severe approach anxiety. Not much of a social life anymore. All of my friends are now married. So is my ex. Still bitter about that one. I can't say I've even approached a woman in 1 month. I just lost it. Thinking about just giving up all together with women and just being alone for life because it just seems easier than to put my self through the pain of losing another one. Ya know I think I need a MANPON hahahahaha. Or just move away from everyone I know and just be alone forever well with the exception of porn.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NickSCFC2000

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What's the point in living if you have nothing to look forward to?
 

KontrollerX

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Is getting a different job that has a more social environment and less hours out of the question for you?

As for moving to a different area if you have the means it could be just what you need as well a job change.
 

Chaos-Knight

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quote:
Is getting a different job that has a more social environment and less hours out of the question for you?

As for moving to a different area if you have the means it could be just what you need as well a job change.
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Sound advise!


... or you could wait for fem-bots or sex-droids/robots to be perfected... :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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