"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Give Up

COMPTON

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I work all day long... Starting to develop severe approach anxiety. Not much of a social life anymore. All of my friends are now married. So is my ex. Still bitter about that one. I can't say I've even approached a woman in 1 month. I just lost it. Thinking about just giving up all together with women and just being alone for life because it just seems easier than to put my self through the pain of losing another one. Ya know I think I need a MANPON hahahahaha. Or just move away from everyone I know and just be alone forever well with the exception of porn.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NickSCFC2000

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What's the point in living if you have nothing to look forward to?
 

KontrollerX

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Is getting a different job that has a more social environment and less hours out of the question for you?

As for moving to a different area if you have the means it could be just what you need as well a job change.
 

Chaos-Knight

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quote:
Is getting a different job that has a more social environment and less hours out of the question for you?

As for moving to a different area if you have the means it could be just what you need as well a job change.
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Sound advise!


... or you could wait for fem-bots or sex-droids/robots to be perfected... :yes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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