"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i get numbers just never get to hang out

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sportf190

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what is my problem if i can easily get the number.. and i know the girl thinks im cute when i get it... it just makes no sense that when i call them ill talk to them for like 5 min and then try to hang out and usually they cant.. then ill try to call them the next day and they dont pick up?? i dont undertsand lol if some goodl ookin girl asked me to hang out i wud make time y isnt it the same for girls?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ratisson

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guy, sometimes a girl will give u her number when she is not even interested.
She does this because she just doesnt have the courage or self-esteem to say NO to ur face, so she'll do it on the phone. When u phone her up and she doesnt accept a date then u know she is one of these girls, so just forget her and stop calling because she just isnt interested. I know it sound illogical that a girl will give u her number when she is not interested but that is just the way it is. And remember, she will never say the word "no' to u, she will either say "yes" or everything else which equals "no".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JHeights83rd

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I have similar problem. I get girls interested, we got good convo going then she gives me her # without asking, then when I call her phone is off. I have had this problem for years with girls, i never get to chill with them. In alot of cases theres a genuine emergency situation, or someother reason behind it.

Girls arent gonna throw around their whole balance just b/c theyre interested in a guy.
 

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i've gotten numerous numbers in the past, went out to eat or study within 15min of convo, they offer their number without me even asking sometimes, then i try to "hang out" and they either can't or play phone games. this has happened alot to me....it sucks! the convo will be great as well as the first activity together, they will be laughing, smiling, and show great interest.
 
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