"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i get numbers just never get to hang out

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sportf190

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what is my problem if i can easily get the number.. and i know the girl thinks im cute when i get it... it just makes no sense that when i call them ill talk to them for like 5 min and then try to hang out and usually they cant.. then ill try to call them the next day and they dont pick up?? i dont undertsand lol if some goodl ookin girl asked me to hang out i wud make time y isnt it the same for girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ratisson

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guy, sometimes a girl will give u her number when she is not even interested.
She does this because she just doesnt have the courage or self-esteem to say NO to ur face, so she'll do it on the phone. When u phone her up and she doesnt accept a date then u know she is one of these girls, so just forget her and stop calling because she just isnt interested. I know it sound illogical that a girl will give u her number when she is not interested but that is just the way it is. And remember, she will never say the word "no' to u, she will either say "yes" or everything else which equals "no".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JHeights83rd

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I have similar problem. I get girls interested, we got good convo going then she gives me her # without asking, then when I call her phone is off. I have had this problem for years with girls, i never get to chill with them. In alot of cases theres a genuine emergency situation, or someother reason behind it.

Girls arent gonna throw around their whole balance just b/c theyre interested in a guy.
 

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i've gotten numerous numbers in the past, went out to eat or study within 15min of convo, they offer their number without me even asking sometimes, then i try to "hang out" and they either can't or play phone games. this has happened alot to me....it sucks! the convo will be great as well as the first activity together, they will be laughing, smiling, and show great interest.
 
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