"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I get no SEX .. Nada from 5 month gf wtf

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Jean Valjean

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she is Fing other men..move on..
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I am going to do that now .. after hearing all these replies. I feel embarrassed to even speak to her again. Seems everyone thought I played the fooll BIG TME.

Now hav eto figure out how to get some other action. Need to get over the scarcity mindset. What are good links or reads .. someone mentioned the DJ bible where do I find this


Damn I wish these people stop calling me a troll. I am just a guy fell in love and got taken to cleaners emotionally .. thats all
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OK dude i will take for what ur saying has true. From looks of it u r just a like emotional punch bag like some other guy said.

If u do decide to change ur mind again and b with her i am pretty sure she will leave ur ass after another 5 months and **** another man in the first week. Get dumped and come back to good old second best jean, Punch all her emotions out on u again feel better and then **** the next DJ that comes round the corner. The cycle continues. Just think of it like this for everytime ur gf leaves u, one of us guys in this forum bangs her and just tosses her back to u with a "thanks", because thats the sheer reality of it.

So far u lost 5 months of ur life with this chick so don't repeat it. So yes well done on deciding to change, but just make sure not to look back. I know sometimes it can b hard, but don't let this girl blind u. U can not force someone to love u who does not want to so don't waste ur time and spend it on women who have got there **** together and actually want to b with u and putting u has first choice rather than sloppy seconds.

Dj bible link is here

Read the nice guy vs jerk stuff, because yes u r a nice guy, which is a good thing, but u need to become a good guy who has the qualities of a nice guy, but if **** likes this happens he is not going to talk a chicks relationship problems over with her so she can just **** some other dude and come back on ur shoulder crying again.

Also read pooks 10 lessons i think that will cover most things, i will also give this a read tonight seeing i need to brush up on a few things.

All the best man.
 
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i will take for what ur saying has true. but don't let this girl blind u. U can not force someone to love u who does not want to so don't waste ur time and spend it on women who have got there **** together and actually want to b with u and putting u has first choice rather than sloppy seconds.
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All the best man.
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rushing dude, Thanks very much, this is a terrific post. I will do my best to abide by your words of wisdom and keep my distance. Right now feeling pain of separation. If you fall in love, a girl gets to you even when things turn sour.

Don't know if I can be a DJ easily because I tend to have oneitis which is why I fell so hard for the girl despite all the crap I got from her. If the woman is a stunner, fun personality, flirty and shows she likes me I fall like a rock from empire state building.

Still can't believe the dude fxxked her in a week or 2's time - not sure. Then dumped her so soon. She was gorgeous, slim, etc. but red flags like clinginess were apparent although I felt flattered that she called me several times a day.

Thanks again, I will read you links and if I get weak read what the DJSsaid on this thread to sober up. You can't make someone love you is sad but true.

My best to you as well.
 
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DonGorgon said:
ur hurt but you need to get over her and move on to your next heart break..lol toughen up man life is hard as hell..
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true that, this kinda stuff will happen many times in life, just learn what you can from each experience.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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