"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I get nervous

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Well today I decided to go for a walk down the street, and I notice this really hot chick hb9 damn she was so hot. Well I tried to smile at her, so when I did she looked at me and I hurried and looked away. I felt like a big p*ssy. I was embarresed to even look back. When it comes to smiling at the hotties for some reason I get nervous and I cant help it.

I have been having this problem for quite awhile and it just pisses me off really bad.

So I was wondering if anyone could help me out. Anyone got any tips or something?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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umm, that's kind of an unusual problem. You can't even smile at a hot girl?

I've heard that you should practice locking eyes with the girls on magazines and stuff when you're standing around the checkout line. Locking eyes with girls is the main thing you need to get the hang of -- not because it magically attracts them to you, but because it makes you feel more dominant.

In fact, lock eyes with guys, too (and unattractive girls). Then nod or smile at them. Don't get in the habit of being afraid to look people in the eye.

A lot of the time, girls won't actually look at you, tho. It's because they're too timid.
 
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Whatcha scared of? Is she gonna stare into your soul with her piercing gaze? Is her neck gonna extend like Mr. Fantastic and she bites your head off? Is she gonna run off and tell the world that you're a rapist or something because you looked at her?

I just said it in another thread: I don't understand where your fear comes from.
 
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