"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I get nervous

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Well today I decided to go for a walk down the street, and I notice this really hot chick hb9 damn she was so hot. Well I tried to smile at her, so when I did she looked at me and I hurried and looked away. I felt like a big p*ssy. I was embarresed to even look back. When it comes to smiling at the hotties for some reason I get nervous and I cant help it.

I have been having this problem for quite awhile and it just pisses me off really bad.

So I was wondering if anyone could help me out. Anyone got any tips or something?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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umm, that's kind of an unusual problem. You can't even smile at a hot girl?

I've heard that you should practice locking eyes with the girls on magazines and stuff when you're standing around the checkout line. Locking eyes with girls is the main thing you need to get the hang of -- not because it magically attracts them to you, but because it makes you feel more dominant.

In fact, lock eyes with guys, too (and unattractive girls). Then nod or smile at them. Don't get in the habit of being afraid to look people in the eye.

A lot of the time, girls won't actually look at you, tho. It's because they're too timid.
 
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Whatcha scared of? Is she gonna stare into your soul with her piercing gaze? Is her neck gonna extend like Mr. Fantastic and she bites your head off? Is she gonna run off and tell the world that you're a rapist or something because you looked at her?

I just said it in another thread: I don't understand where your fear comes from.
 
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