"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i get " lets just be friends " before i Finnish my coffee this morning. LOL thread

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so you all know i've been texting this girl. my heads been all over the place this week. ( i started to fall for her) then on friday i text her and told her i wasn't going to chase her anymore. ( why i got pissy i got no idea. )

so after her texing me last night and not reading the text properly. ( though she was inviting me out but she was telling me she was playing poker. and we should set it up. so i try set it up for tonight. doesn't work) she sends me this long crappy text telling me that she needs to concentrate on being a mother and all this ****.

i wake up see this text and have the " HOLY WALL OF TEXT BATMAN!" face on like what the ****. she starts going on about me chasing her and i'm like.. "no one is changing anyone!" why you got to be freaking out" she kept sending me this ****. for a awhile all i kept saying way. " wtf you flipping about"

then after awhile i asked her what changed. cos she like me last week. she gives me some ****. i tell her to stop freaking. then she says never mind.

i don't get her she always says we should do something. but when i set a time and day she doesn't respond to it. i have no idea what she was flipping about this morning. she was like. i don't want to be with anyone right now. you know. i was like.. ***** please!

i#m not set on her. i mean.. maybe i was a little to much during the week. now i'll be in the cub tonight looking to replace her pretty quickly. not sure if i can salvage this or if it's even worth my time too...

now i'm just going to go back to random sexually testing her for self amusement.

so kids. learn from my mistake. don't fall for girls. you will get a rude wake up. but this is going to make me go to the club tonight and get some *****ES!

plus i get in free from a promo haha! other then that my day as been very good. i got hard rain on vinyl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Packers2010 said:
so you all know i've been texting this girl. my heads been all over the place this week. ( i started to fall for her) then on friday i text her and told her i wasn't going to chase her anymore. ( why i got pissy i got no idea. )

so after her texing me last night and not reading the text properly. ( though she was inviting me out but she was telling me she was playing poker. and we should set it up. so i try set it up for tonight. doesn't work) she sends me this long crappy text telling me that she needs to concentrate on being a mother and all this ****.

i wake up see this text and have the " HOLY WALL OF TEXT BATMAN!" face on like what the ****. she starts going on about me chasing her and i'm like.. "no one is changing anyone!" why you got to be freaking out" she kept sending me this ****. for a awhile all i kept saying way. " wtf you flipping about"

then after awhile i asked her what changed. cos she like me last week. she gives me some ****. i tell her to stop freaking. then she says never mind.

i don't get her she always says we should do something. but when i set a time and day she doesn't respond to it. i have no idea what she was flipping about this morning. she was like. i don't want to be with anyone right now. you know. i was like.. ***** please!

i#m not set on her. i mean.. maybe i was a little to much during the week. now i'll be in the cub tonight looking to replace her pretty quickly. not sure if i can salvage this or if it's even worth my time too...

now i'm just going to go back to random sexually testing her for self amusement.

so kids. learn from my mistake. don't fall for girls. you will get a rude wake up. but this is going to make me go to the club tonight and get some *****ES!

plus i get in free from a promo haha! other then that my day as been very good. i got hard rain on vinyl.

Holy crap....you are telling her ok, i won't chase you anymore and now you are wondering what is wrong???? it should have never gotten to that point inthe first place and never tell a girl you arte not going to chase just DON't DO IT... Like really.....you have lost her...go NC immediately...i would be scared of you as well...i got a suffocating feeling even reading your post...and nothing ever changed...she says she wants to just to be nice but doesn't really want to....you can't act like this with any woman....leave her alone unless she begs you back...highly unlikely at this point...
 

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zinc4 said:
Holy crap....you are telling her ok, i won't chase you anymore and now you are wondering what is wrong???? it should have never gotten to that point inthe first place and never tell a girl you arte not going to chase just DON't DO IT... Like really.....you have lost her...go NC immediately...i would be scared of you as well...i got a suffocating feeling even reading your post...and nothing ever changed...she says she wants to just to be nice but doesn't really want to....you can't act like this with any woman....leave her alone unless she begs you back...highly unlikely at this point...
i wasn't asking anything btw i was just venting. it's my own fault. I haven't been out in like forever.

i was like kanye and i was just saying.

i will go no contact right now and i will del her number.
 
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