"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I get hot girls now by being nice and supplicating (sweet talking)

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It's true. I used to have a lot of problems getting girls by always using techniques such as being a challenge, ****y&funny, and mysterious. I no longer do any of those things.

Now all I do is be really nice to her. Compliment her on how pretty she looks and tell her she is really unique. It's been able to make me have sex with hot girls, and now I am in a relationship with one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude i kinda agree, see my post about how being really sweet really works!! i think the whole ****y arrogant thing is necessary for guys who r kinda ugly and need to play games....if a guy looks good, then hes got a good chance to hook up by being nice (but NOT boring!)
 

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It will ofcourse work on some girls. That's how AFC's get them. But that doesn't mean you have solid game. If you are very goodloocking you can get girls by doing pretty much anything..that's not the point. To get the best quality, hottest, most attractive and desirable girls, you simply CANNOT do what every other guy out there is doing. It won't work, 'cause there is always someone out there who is smarter, betterlooking and have a hell of a lot more game than you..especially if your arsenal consists of compliments and supplication.

Please take your advise elsewhere..'cause you are not helping alot of people on this board who actually needs it.
 

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Well I don't consider myself great looking. I had a picture on hot or not before and I got like a 7.5.
A lot of people here like to play all these games, but honestly if you have to play all these games in order to get a girl, is it worth it? Are you really going to be happy knowing that a girl likes you because you purposely didn't call her for 3 days or you purposely acted really mysterious and used ****y and funny just to get her?
 

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Originally posted by MVP
Well I don't consider myself great looking. I had a picture on hot or not before and I got like a 7.5.
A lot of people here like to play all these games, but honestly if you have to play all these games in order to get a girl, is it worth it? Are you really going to be happy knowing that a girl likes you because you purposely didn't call her for 3 days or you purposely acted really mysterious and used ****y and funny just to get her?
to get a girl to be much interested in you and then control her

i think its worth it well for me

at least in the end i wont get hurt..

by being nice ur letting her know u are kissing her ass with the comments..

hot girls hear too much and know their hot.. they want a boy whos different. who likes them for they are not the the comments.. when a girll comments on me on how i look i just say " thanks so whats up" i never reply bback saying you look good too,

try to be different girls like that
then u will adapt to your game and u will actually do things automaticly without even thinkin of it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MVP
Well I don't consider myself great looking. I had a picture on hot or not before and I got like a 7.5.
A lot of people here like to play all these games, but honestly if you have to play all these games in order to get a girl, is it worth it? Are you really going to be happy knowing that a girl likes you because you purposely didn't call her for 3 days or you purposely acted really mysterious and used ****y and funny just to get her?
For people who couldn't get a woman if their life depended on it prior to learning this stuff, yes, it's definately worth it.

You are missing the point. Being a DJ isn't about "tricking" a girl into liking you. You're just going about it a lil' bit differently than most guys, simply because you know better. Everything we know, we have at some point learned. It doesn't make us fake. We are still being ourselves. These techniques, routines and games as you call it should be internalized and made a part of you. Never try anything that isn't congruent with who you really are. That will only backfire and if you present yourself as something to get a girl, and when she falls for you and your true self is revealed, you will not be able to keep her. So you have to be "for real". Being a DJ is all about becoming a better person. A more attractive person to girls because of who you are, not what you do.

Before taking a test you have to be prepared or taught in some form to do well...
 

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Originally posted by \O/
These techniques, routines and games as you call it should be internalized and made a part of you. Never try anything that isn't congruent with who you really are. That will only backfire and if you present yourself as something to get a girl, and when she falls for you and your true self is revealed, you will not be able to keep her.
Exactly all those stuff have to be internalized thats why if you have good inner game its easier as you can seem congruent pretty well. Because i'm a great actor when comes to gaming, for some reason I make everything i'm saying sound like i'm serious and it really happened. An as I've over did C&F sometimes you could here some of the whining because they didn't know whether I was telling truth or not.

Anyway on to the subject being nice can get you laid and actually most of the stuff taught is mainly for the attraction stage to get her attracted. All of it is just to bait her to like you and invest. If she already liked you and you go in being C&F constantly it will all backfire, and that is why you calibrate and look if she is giving you AIs. If a girl is giving me AIs i can just walk up and say hi or just go straight in for rapport as i know she already likes me. Or if it seems she is alittle attracted id do things to make her think i'm starting to fall for her and then go into rapport that way when she fuvks me she don't think I jus talked to her to fuvk her and end up never fuvking her again.

All in all being nice can work but you won't consistently get girls and chances of getting girls are low. Ask any non naturals and non DJ/PUAs to give you tips on how to get girls, and they will most likely tell you to get to know her (Rapport) alot of djs and naturals do this too. But no matter how nice of a guy he is, he won't be able to get as many girls as the DJ/PUA.
 

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"I get hot girls now by being nice and supplicating (sweet talking)"

Quite possibally you don't understand supplication in the propper sense. Sweet talking to get what you wanted, or "buttering her up" isn't supplicating. When you use it cleaverly it isn't.

I'm gussing that apart from, all your niceness, that you don't act like a *****.
 

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Watch the show "Average Joe" and see how those chumps supplicate her to the utmost extreme! It's crazy and it's pretty damn scary, pathetic and submissive. She has godlike status to the chumps and they feel like the luckiest dudes on the planet just to be allowed to sit next to her...

Funny stuff! :D
 
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