I get bored of people too easily...

[Korrupt]

If I see a girl more than once a week, I start to legitimately lose attraction to her. I mean I'll literally go from getting horny just thinking about her, to not being able to get it up while she's naked and straddling and kissing me. This usually happens in less than a month. Then (usually), if we take a week or two break I'll get some of that interest/attraction back.

Anyone struggled with this? And I do mean struggled, because it's a relationship killer.

 

[twoface262]

Do you watch a lot of porn? It could be PED

 

[TheProspect]

As @twoface262 mentioned, porn can contribute to what you're describing.

Porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) is caused by excessive porn consumption, where you your brain becomes addicted to the dopamine spikes of seeing a new woman in a new position with every swipe of your fingertips. The availability and convenience of internet pornography makes this quite common with younger men who grew up with internet porn since their early teens (during the formative stages of their brain and behaviour, and almost always before their first sexual experience). Unsurprisingly, this is why PIED is not as common in men in their late 20s and older (which often is the demographic who hastily dismiss existence of PIED).

The novelty of a new partner can wear off quickly if your brain is accustomed to being primarily stimulated from porn. Sex with one girl will become vanilla in comparison to what your brain is used to experiencing in porn (your dopamine receptors are stimulated less).

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Even outside of porn, the novelty can wear off with a partner rapidly if you interact too frequently with them. For some guys once a day is fine, others once or twice a month is good enough. For me personally, once or twice a week is just dandy, even in a relationship. We're all different.

For a lot of guys it's just about the conquest. Just being able to finally sleep with a girl is enough to make you lose interest/attraction for her, especially if you bed her early and have nothing in common besides sex. I sometimes crave ice cream spontaneously or if I haven't had it for awhile, and once I indulge I am good for awhile. I lose interest in it temporarily. Sometimes I come across an ice cream that is so good it might be take me a week straight of indulging before I finally get sick of it.

Not sure if the analogy fits; I'm just honestly craving ice cream now.

 

[Korrupt]

Lmfao. Yeah... No. This forum Did you even read the topic title?

Some seriously dumb fvcks on here.

 

[Glassguy]

@Korrupt

I get bored with most women rather easily myself. I look at it as this: when have high yet realistic standards, this happens. I am not totally looking at a woman simply based on appearance. Although she must be attractive, she must also posses a lot of other attributes that I look for. If she doesnt, I mentally check out and I lose interest.

On the other hand, we live in a world that has been made very small with social media, OLD, etc. It is a slippery slope to have such a tremendous amount of available women at our fingertips. I am sure that us red pill men miss out on some potentially good LTR's just because its so easy to monkey branch to the next one or shift attention to another woman that we are banging.

Lastly, red pill/alpha males want/have abundance. We want/have selection. Sometimes it truly is the thrill of the chase and once we get it and know we can have it, we dont really want it anymore. I fall into that category a lot. The buildup makes it worthwhile, but then the build up is gone.

The old saying "Pvssy is like money in the bank. Once you pull out, all the interest is gone."