"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I get a lot of attention from blacks/asians on dating sites...why?

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It's very strange. I'm a typical white guy...nothing exotic around me. I like to think I'm good looking. Mostly eastern European with some Scandinavian mixed in. My profile states what I'm looking for, white girls only. There is absolutely nothing in their that would even suggest I'm interested in mixed-race relations.

And yet they flock to me like crazy. I'd say about 40% of my messages are from white girls...60% from blacks and Asians?

The Asian girls do their typical "I'm so wittle and cute routine" The black girls....forget it. All about 60 pounds overweight. Sticking their asses in the cameras. Covered in tattoos, multiple children at 23. Revolting to the fullest extent. Not an ounce of class

Anybody else getting this kind of unwanted attention on dating sites?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mike32ct said:
Are you a very light skinned white guy? Sometimes it's an opposites attract sort of thing.

I'm white as a ghost lol, so on average, I probably get slightly more attention from non-white women.
I am actually. Not as white as say, Sheamus of WWE fame...but still that eastern European blood renders me pretty pale
 

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I'd have to agree with the opposites attract thing. Plus, asian girls tend to date white guys mostly, at least the cute ones.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. Black girls get no attention, so they will talk to anyone. I could get black gf any time I want.

2. Asian girls are slaves to white guys. They will date one no matter what he looks like.
 

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The black girls....forget it. All about 60 pounds overweight. Sticking their asses in the cameras. Covered in tattoos, multiple children at 23. Revolting to the fullest extent. Not an ounce of class
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I'm black, but I couldn't help but laugh at this. So very true.
 
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Don't usually like talking about race but here we go.

I have noticed that Black women are by far the most open minded when it comes to race. A Black girl will date any race of guys even if they are just average looking, a lot of them prefer men that aren't Black these days for some reason. I have Asian, Indian, Latino, and Arab friends who receive so much attention from Black women in real life. White guys who look average can easily land Black girls above their leagues, no joke. I think it might be some sort of wanting to get back at Black men for dating other races kind of thing but this is just what I have noticed in real life and online. Black women are not shy at all about dating other races or showing interest, most will ask the guy himself out.

Asian women love White guys, without question. Asian culture puts a lot of love for Whiteness where fair is better. I have seen 8/10 Asian girls date chubby White guys who had pale skin, don't know what is going on there but it is just what I see a lot of.

White women don't really message anyone since they know they can have any man they want on the drop of a dime. Unlike other races, White girls understand how attractive they are to everyone so you don't have them approaching anyone or trying to hook up with a guy.
 

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All good and valid points. I happen to like Asian girls, I've dated a few. Even better is a girl that's 1/2 Asian, but they always know how hot they are so they tend to be a little stuck up
 

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Why wouldnt you want asian girls? They are the cream of the crop...

Black girls are super fine too as long as they don't come from America/Britian. My first bang was with a little Black Brazilian bombshell.... any woman made in America is sh1t.

BTW Everyone likes to fck outside their race, its immensely satisfying to look into the eyes of someone different from you. I can stare at my wife's eyes all day long...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LiveFreeX said:
Why wouldnt you want asian girls? They are the cream of the crop...

Black girls are super fine too as long as they don't come from America/Britian. My first bang was with a little Black Brazilian bombshell.... any woman made in America is sh1t.

BTW Everyone likes to fck outside their race, its immensely satisfying to look into the eyes of someone different from you. I can stare at my wife's eyes all day long...
Only Asian girls I have liked were mixed looking ones and I am not into Black girls unless they are half or mixed, even then no interest. TBH, I haven't seen many of the muscular ripped and good looking White guys go interracial as much IRL no matter where I have gone.

And no, most people prefer to date within their own race. Quit trying to push your preferences onto other people.
 
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