"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Fvcking hate when girls say this..

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I'll be talking with a girl, not necisarilly consciously gaming them even, and the conversation naturally progresses to sex. Then, they come on hard with the line "dont lie, you want me". Or some variation. I hate that. The chase is over. I know i could have them then and there, and yet, no matter how hot they are, it kills all attraction. I don't want them anymore.

boys I have a problem. I like the hunt more than the kill.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Commissar said:
I'll be talking with a girl, not necisarilly consciously gaming them even, and the conversation naturally progresses to sex. Then, they come on hard with the line "dont lie, you want me". Or some variation. I hate that. The chase is over. I know i could have them then and there, and yet, no matter how hot they are, it kills all attraction. I don't want them anymore.

boys I have a problem. I like the hunt more than the kill.
Kind of like games, huh? I enjoy playing them, but feel sad when i beat them.

Uh...anyways, maybe you could try and keep your conversations sexual without going on a direct line to sex? It also depends on the girl you are talking with.

Also, if you really like the girl, i don't think that would kill the attraction.

Think of it this way. Some people would be dying to have it your way.
 

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"dont lie, you want me".
"You wish you could have me."

That's the girl trying to get you to confess your interest in her because she can't really read you because you're being cool about it, and she doesn't know any other way to get you to show your interest.

That's what ruins your attraction to her?
 

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She put you on the spot, clever girl. Now you need to reverse that sh1t on her:

Her: "don't lie you want me"

Look at her straight into her eyes and say: "and judging by the way you are looking at me, I don't even need to ask".
 

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Usually that line is a precursor to me not getting any sex from a girl -- she is looking for validation before she pulls out the LJBF (so she can know that she COULD have me but is choosing not to).

Though, I was successful once with this exchange:

HER: "Oh, don't lie - I can tell you want me."
ME: (silence)
HER: (breaking the silent stare) "What?"
ME: "You told me not to lie"

I got hit in the arm for that one, but it was a good moment. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You, "I havent drank enough yet, sweetheart."
 

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I remember this happened to me one time, she flat out told me "I know you wanna fvck me, don't keep it in." I gave this "Who do you think you are" kind of look and just stared at her like that. I playfully punched her (no not a real punch) on the shoulder and told her "Funny person!" kind of sarcastically. Later that night we were making out and she tells me "I love it when guys don't tell me what to do and they do it for me..." Didn't do it though, we had no place, ugh.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
I remember this happened to me one time, she flat out told me "I know you wanna fvck me, don't keep it in." I gave this "Who do you think you are" kind of look and just stared at her like that. I playfully punched her (no not a real punch) on the shoulder and told her "Funny person!" kind of sarcastically. Later that night we were making out and she tells me "I love it when guys don't tell me what to do and they do it for me..." Didn't do it though, we had no place, ugh.

I would have pretended to go for my zipper and said, "Well, you told me not to keep it in."
 

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DJDamage said:
She put you on the spot, clever girl. Now you need to reverse that sh1t on her:

Her: "don't lie you want me"

Look at her straight into her eyes and say: "and judging by the way you are looking at me, I don't even need to ask".
brilliant!
 

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One lady asked me ,tell me you want my pvssy ,
I replied ,I dont really need it ,with her
She was surprised and told I am something

Commissar said:
Then, they come on hard with the line "dont lie, you want me". Or some variation. I hate that.
I like the hunt more than the kill.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB: Admit it, you want to f*ck me!
Me: <shrug shoulders> Meh.
HB: Jaw agape in stunned disbelief
OR
HB: You jerk! <playful punch to the arm>

Basically it's a sh*t test and standard rules apply. My defacto method of dealing with STs is to ignore it or do the mirror/repeating method.
 

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Just because she said that doesn't mean she wants you. Don't be fooled, girls don't always say what they mean. Girls love to play games and flirt, the chase isn't over till u fvck her. I say keep flirting and play some C&f back.
 

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"dont lie, you want me". Or some variation. I hate that. The chase is over.
Why are you letting this be a roadblock? there's so many ways to escalate the attraction from this point on.

- "Ooooh yeah, I just wanna rip your shirt off and suck on your nipples. Grrrrrrr!"
- "...and what are you going to do if I lie??? ;) "
- "You.... in the back of the car.... naked..... NOW!"

My favorite part is when you get her so attracted and horny, she rips off your fvcking pants and starts sucking you off. Women love the buildup and the anticipation for the right moment to be as fvcking nasty as they want.

The chase is fun, but getting them squirming in their soggy panties is even more fun.
 
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