"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I FVCKING HATE AFCs

Yotsuya-san

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Originally posted by Genghis Juan

Don't know how old you are, or where you live, but maybe you should try some other avenues to meet women too. Sounds like that bar is a rowdy kind of place.
Not sure I got your definition of rowdy. I'm picturing he's in this more upscale nite club where they don't check for weapons and they got sort of a dress code (i.e. no backward ball caps or doo rags, ect.). Sounds more like a gang of preppies that are trying to search for chicks outside of their own limiting circles. Preppie dudes don't neccecarily want preppie chicks just like geeky dudes don't neccesarily want geeky chicks. They want to feel that they got some appeal outside of their own circles. Not everyone can make that transition. Probably, Don Juanabbe, you reminded them that maybe at least this group should stick with their own kind provided that they haven't already struck out there as I suspect.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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