I fvck girls, but can't keep any good ones

[LorenzoVonM]

First things first, you are 22 in a major liberal Metropolitan area. So that's one possibility. You're at an age when girls want freedom to explore and have fun. Young girls can be very fickle. Many are not going to want to get tied down when there is so much opportunity and fun to be had. I'm down in SoCal and that's how it plays out here as well. Girls aren't conditioned to seek providers at such a young age like some smaller conservative places.

Now I think this might be a problem with the girls that I am attracting. When I am single I usually have 2-4 girls I am sleeping with and 2 or 3 potentials. They know I have others and they accept it. After they bring up exclusivity and I agree, I drop my other plates but know deep down I can get plates at any time.

How do they know you have others? Do you ever get drama over that fact? How are they bringing up exclusivity? with drama? If they accept what you are doing, they could be fine with it themselves, banging other dudes in the process. Her bringing up exclusivity can be just another sh*t test to see if you are man enough to keep up your harem. She's testing her place in your world. If you crumble at the first request for exclusivity then you just wrecked her view of you. You are not as strong as you seemed.

I want to date these girls. I qualify them and make sure that it's a damn good decision for me to giving up sleeping with other women. In other words, they're worth it.

Aren't you already dating them? You can have emotional connections with multiple women. You can have connections with women you are not "dating". I have those connections with girls I see once a month. You can do it with girls you see once a week. Honestly it just sounds like male NEEDINESS. You need to POSSESS them.

Also, your qualification system sounds like it needs an overhaul.

It seems these girls I am dating lose interest when we become exclusive. I do my best not to beta backslide, but sometimes I lose frame and am too available. Hey, I'm human after all.

So you solved an issue: You lose frame. Again how much is the beta backslide? If its a DRAMATIC change, then you are not the guy these girls signed on for. Stop giving up frame. You are being confusing and letting these chicks down. Stop with the NEEDINESS. This is a story that gets played out OVER and OVER and OVER...Guy is alpha, guy drops all plates to get in relationship, guy gets whipped, girl loses interest and dumps him.

With my friends being mostly beta acquaintances I don't really have any go-to friends to hit up, so I end up spending a lot of time with my plates. This leads to me being too available when I find a girl I really like and drop those plates. And knowing how attraction works, being too available is unattractive.

So you solved another issue. Get some hobbies, join some sports leagues, make new friends, find a mission to work on. Anything. Women should never be the first priority in your life.

 

[Jaylan]

Good job making yourself look like an overly sensitive faggot.

If you live your life by "sayings" its no wonder you're clueless. Keep reading my posts.. maybe you'll learn a few things.

I just don't respect men who talk like 15 year old girls and whine about people who "say mean things".

Grow up, stop crying and spin plates.. OR shut the f*ck up.

The only one behaving like a teenager is you bro. Grow the fvck the up.

 

[instantnoodles]

Good job making yourself look like an overly sensitive faggot.

If you live your life by "sayings" its no wonder you're clueless. Keep reading my posts.. maybe you'll learn a few things.



I just don't respect men who talk like 15 year old girls and whine about people who "say mean things".

Grow up, stop crying and spin plates.. OR shut the f*ck up.

P-man, I have to agree with most of C-Word's points. You seem to have a lot of cynicism and pessimism regarding your perspectives on relationships with women which is why you look down upon anyone with the opposite viewpoints of your's - such as a dislike for marriage. You probably had a bad experience but you have to admit, your anger does colour most of your posts.

I understand maybe you're angry. But when you're giving advice, keep the anger at bay and it will help to give advice that probably makes more sense. If you give advice, the "actions" in your advice are based on emotion (anger) and it might not be as helpful. You will omit biased answers. Also, your advice won't achieve successful results that way.


Focus more on the situation at hand and less on your experience/feelings - your's or anyone else's.

 

[( . )( . )]

lol @ PlayHer Man getting triple banged from gaylan, a chick and the dude? who talks like this:

incase you do have problems with relationships, may I suggest you reevaluate your caveman attitude?

This is 2013. Being as misogynistic as you are will never, ever attract a quality woman and, more than that, it just makes you a shtty dude.

Society has evolved to a point where we are becoming more and more accepting of our fellow man and woman. Gay marriage? Great, doesn't affect me. A mastectomy to prevent cancer - hopefully you're not actually so stupid that you think a woman doesn't deserve to live if she doesn't have breasts.

The rest of the world has been there for a while, but the West and the States (which is no doubt where you're from) is starting to catch up. The world is evolving, Zunder - and there's no further proof of that than looking at how far the rest of humanity has come, and how far behind/alone/sad you are.

The poor bastard doesn't stand a chance. It's like a rapid fire barrage of fem-shaming tactics all at once. I hate to say I told you so but I did say if the cancer is left unchecked it will grow..... and grow into an "edgy" version of loveshack it has. :cheer:

 

[Jaylan]

uh oh, manospambot alert.

 

[( . )( . )]

uh oh, manospambot alert.

Like 6500 posts in under 2 years over at loveshack?

 

[Jitterbug]

You're 22. Girls around your age are raised by their parents and entire society to avoid relationship and focus on fun, travel, career, experiments, empowerment and whateverfvckment women studies uglies have come up with in the last 5 decades.

Be worried if they're trying to lock you down in a relationship. If they're not, it's entirely normal (for your sick decaying society).

 

[( . )( . )]

You're 22. Girls around your age are raised by their parents and entire society to avoid relationship and focus on fun, travel, career, experiments, empowerment and whateverfvckment women studies uglies have come up with in the last 5 decades.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/592be37f996bc13e5f3700c70730de13/tumblr_mmeb7wLGIE1rafoj2o1_400.gif

 

[LorenzoVonM]

I didn't see the problem with PlayHerMans first post which resulted in a retarded flame war.

Although i don't totally agree with the "slave" part, in the overwhelming majority of relationships today you are giving up FREEDOM. You've really got to take a hard look at yourself and figure out why you want to do that. If you're giving up that freedom because you think its gonna make you WHOLE then you're f*cked.

People today think these things outside of themselves are going to fulfill them. Society fills our heads with these ideas everyday. It makes all of us good consumers and highly predictable. And when the illusion comes crashing down you have people distraught and flooding into websites like this to try and make sense of things. Analyzing, ruminating, lying to themselves and fighting for relationships that need to be let go to the breeze. They did everything they were told they should do, WTF happened? That level of suffering and anguish just goes to illustrate they weren't WHOLE to begin with.

 

[pyros]

Hi Sofomore,

could you explain to me how do you manage to lay so many girls? I just cannot believe it. How do you look? where do you meet them? how? lifestyle? etc? please.

Thanks dude.

P.S.
Uglos do not count, ok?

 

[Ronaldo7]

I can't see what women are good for, besides sex. A significant other that's there for you all the time? That's what family is for. PlayHer Man is right on about this. Marriage is a complete waste of time and money. They will take half of your things no matter what. People need to understand that life is simple and its only complicated to those who make it so. I ask people all the time why they would get married or get a girlfriend. Some say sex, others say having company, and others don't know what to say. Sex? Get a hoe or a friends with benefits. Company? Your family and friends. Women nag, whine, and complain over anything and everything. They will drive you insane and if you do something about it, its called "domestic abuse". Save yourself the headaches.

 

[PlayHer Man]

P-man, I have to agree with most of C-Word's points. You seem to have a lot of cynicism and pessimism regarding your perspectives on relationships with women which is why you look down upon anyone with the opposite viewpoints of your's - such as a dislike for marriage. You probably had a bad experience but you have to admit, your anger does colour most of your posts.

I understand maybe you're angry. But when you're giving advice, keep the anger at bay and it will help to give advice that probably makes more sense. If you give advice, the "actions" in your advice are based on emotion (anger) and it might not be as helpful. You will omit biased answers. Also, your advice won't achieve successful results that way.


Focus more on the situation at hand and less on your experience/feelings - your's or anyone else's.

What anger? Maybe you should stop projecting. 99% of the time I'm posting on SoSuave I'm not angry at all. Just telling it like it is.

If you and others can't stomach logic that's YOUR issue more than mine sugar tits.

Its well known that females (like yourself) give horrible dating advice to men. Its not even debatable. So any poster you support is clearly talking out of their ass. :yes:

When a woman comes on a site like this and gets mad.. that's when you know you're onto something. The things that make women smile are the things that benefit THEM. Common sense people. You can listen to me or listen to clowns like Jaylan. Your choice.

 

[OldGoat]

To the the op: How good looking are the chicks?

 

[Sofomore]

To the the op: How good looking are the chicks?

HB 8+. I don't dip lower ever. The ones that end up losing interest are 9s that have a LOT of options so they can branch swing easily.

 

[instantnoodles]

What anger? Maybe you should stop projecting. 99% of the time I'm posting on SoSuave I'm not angry at all. Just telling it like it is.

If you and others can't stomach logic that's YOUR issue more than mine sugar tits.

Its well known that females (like yourself) give horrible dating advice to men. Its not even debatable. So any poster you support is clearly talking out of their ass. :yes:

When a woman comes on a site like this and gets mad.. that's when you know you're onto something. The things that make women smile are the things that benefit THEM. Common sense people. You can listen to me or listen to clowns like Jaylan. Your choice.

What logic? I just said you never had any in your posts. Lol. It's mostly emotion which is why I pointed it out. I'm helping you, chill your a$$.
It's true to me because people who feel as if committing to any woman (or commitment in general) is a waste of time or just stupid, has some bad emotion that clouds their logic on what people normally do. Even negative stereotypical views on women count too.

Its well known that females (like yourself) give horrible dating advice to men. Its not even debatable.

Stop generalizing. Yes I know most girls give TERRIBLE advice. That's why I NEVER ask them about my situation lately. They get their stupid advice from Cosmo-Girl and MTV. Only I can know what to do. And even if it's the guy's FRIEND, it's STILL terrible advice because his so called "friend" is on a level of SNAKE-A$$ punk.



And no, I'm not mad. I come on here to get advice too and better myself - it's worked especially when I deal with males similar to you :yes:

 

[Sofomore]

Hi Sofomore,

could you explain to me how do you manage to lay so many girls? I just cannot believe it. How do you look? where do you meet them? how? lifestyle? etc? please.

Thanks dude.

P.S.
Uglos do not count, ok?

I am a 6'1" white male that grew up with two doctors as parents. I meet girls at bars, parties, friends of friends and a few female friends that set me up with their friends. I don't really make much money at my job...just enough to be comfortable. I am a music producer and DJ, although this doesn't get me laid as much as expected.

I have only fvcked one ugly chick. I blacked out and woke up next to a girl with fake booby scars. She would be a 6 by the standards of this board.

It's really just your attitude towards girls. I give off the vibe that I don't give a sh!t what they think, even though they are pretty. The only problem is I get dependent and lazy after dating them for months.

 

[Jaylan]

Like 6500 posts in under 2 years over at loveshack?

You mean 10 posts a day which is the limit here? Please try another manospambot tactic. They intrigue me.

Uh you're the most predictable spambot contrarian here...Im not sure why you bother typig any actual words. What percentage of your posts are anything other than picking fights? 5%?

Lmao...its not my fault that you only pay attention to my posts when you want to whine about something. Notice myself and others gave OP sage advice, before a certain poster ran in here trying to call people who thought differently from him faggots.

Take off the blinders kid.:yes:

 

[floydb25]

HB 8+. I don't dip lower ever. The ones that end up losing interest are 9s that have a LOT of options so they can branch swing easily.

Yea... you already know the facts... just gotta accept it. Hot girls are all about the chase and challenge, wanting what they can't have, major prize mentality, short-lived infatuation, the new shiny, etc. They change their minds constantly, can never be satisfied, objectify people, are ALL about the emotional rush... you know the drill, man. This is who they are, and how they operate.

Girls you lust over and crush on are not going to be the quality ones you shack up with. Just the way it is. They have all the attractive qualities, but nothing else. Nobody lasts with them - not just you. Even being around decent / cute girls shows a WORLD of difference between the two. Hot girls are shallow and retarded (and vain and conceited), and all about the "game". It's their whole life. They play people like nothing else - because they can. Even when they pursue you, or complain about whatever - it's all about THEM... just like everything else in the world. Just don't take them seriously, or assume them to be quality because they're "into" you for a time. They're into the chase and challenge and getting what they "want" - not you. It's never about YOU.

You may not like it, but that's the way it is.

 

[Jaylan]

your "sage advice" must not stick. How old are you that you're calling me "kid?"

If you look at my posting history in this part of the forum, youd see OPs of threads tend to like my advice. And aside from the OPs, there are regulars who agree with some of my viewpoints. Not everyone will agree on everything though. So as I said, open your eyes. It seems your mind only wants you to see the things you disagree with.

And regarding age, I called you a kid because you previous post reminds me and kiddish behavior. No need for you to run and defend your buddy tits man.

 

[Sofomore]

Yea... you already know the facts... just gotta accept it. Hot girls are all about the chase and challenge, wanting what they can't have, major prize mentality, short-lived infatuation, the new shiny, etc. They change their minds constantly, can never be satisfied, objectify people, are ALL about the emotional rush... you know the drill, man. This is who they are, and how they operate.

Girls you lust over and crush on are not going to be the quality ones you shack up with. Just the way it is. They have all the attractive qualities, but nothing else. Nobody lasts with them - not just you. Even being around decent / cute girls shows a WORLD of difference between the two. Hot girls are shallow and retarded (and vain and conceited), and all about the "game". It's their whole life. They play people like nothing else - because they can. Even when they pursue you, or complain about whatever - it's all about THEM... just like everything else in the world. Just don't take them seriously, or assume them to be quality because they're "into" you for a time. They're into the chase and challenge and getting what they "want" - not you. It's never about YOU.

You may not like it, but that's the way it is.

Thanks for your insight. I think that because I am a bit shallow I tend to go for the hot girls that every guy wants. I am able to get these girls with ease, but it is mostly due to my knowledge and practice of game.

I think I am a little delusional in thinking that I can keep one of these girls interested for a long period of time, as long as I keep my game tight. What it really comes down to is that if I want to get into a relationship I would have to "settle" and I am not willing to settle when I know I can find hotter.

Most guys, including myself, would complain, "Where are the quality girls that turn me on mentally and physically?" I guess if I keep building my tower (hobbies, career, gym etc) and get more experience I will be able to come across one of these girls- and know what to do.