"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I fuked up again.

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Gosh damit. Ok im gonna tell u the story.



My Friend (Girl) i hooked up with her a few times had a friend of hers staying over her house for a week. So my friend tells me that shes going to try to hook me up with her friend at My Friends house who is a guy. So When i show up at my friends house. I walk in and my friend who is the girl and her friend is sitting on the couch. So my friend the gurl gets up and gives me a hug. And i say hi to the gurl with a Lets be more then friends handshake. I noticed she pulled back quickly. So We sit there together listening to my friend talk (the guy). And i am sitting next to the girl. So we sit there for about an hour and i didnt really say anything. So we go outside for a while and i talked to my Friend who is the girl. I ask her what is the deal with her friend. Am i in or out. She goes well she thinks that ur cool but ur too quite and thats not her type.


So i go over what i did wrong. I find out that i didnt even have a convo with her! I didnt really talk to her that much.

Im so pissed now. I tottally forgot everything i learned. I was still shy! after 7 monthes. I Studying all the information ive read E books everything on this site. everything on all the other sites. and i watched David Deangelos 7 Disc DVD serious. And i forgot it all just because i was kinda shy. Grr i dunnoo. I made a bad impression. Any Ideas I get another chance tomarrow to see her. Witch will be Saturday july 16 2005
So hit me up with some Tips for when i see her tomarrow please guys this will be much aprieciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You don't really learn from reading tons of articles, you learn from experience. Hopefully your failure this one night will let you know that you must talk to the girl that you want to have in order to make progress. Every time you fail, take what you did wrong into account and fix it for next time, that is how you become better.
 
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yeh thats what i did. I sat down for an hour. Talks to my bud about the night and figured out what i did wrong. And now i learn that i have to talk to her.
 
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I would just say next and then if she comes to you just try to get in her pants again. Just don't go to her and then when you talk to her again play it cool. There are no tps we can give you except to not seem needy and desperate.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man dont be too down on yourself...A lot of times awkward situations come out when the girl you like is with a friend of hers. Especially when its just the three of you hanging out and especially if her firend is a guy. Its just kind of this stupid awkward feeling.
 
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yikes i havent bought anything and couldve handled that better lol.

well the guy who was talkinging took the role of alpha male. he directed the conversation etc. i like to work on improving my A.M. status in social situations like these. lean back, say things so everyone can hear you, say witty things, and make good conversation. and know, most importantly, that u are the alpha male here. it'll show.

and, of course, chat up the chick with fluff talk. yeahhhh u kinda messed it up with her but hey theres about 150 million other girls in this fine country of ours. forget her!
 
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Thanks guys. Yeh It was actually four of us. My Friend who is the guy was talking the whole time so i guess that he was taking the Alpha male role. But when situations come like that i never know how to talk. And The 2 girls were crackin up at him and stuff. But the guy already has a girlfriend and they know that. And The guy and the other girl was just trying to hook me up with this chick. But He was talkin so much! jeez.
 
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You're 17 man, do what you know, don't be slow.
 
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dont just sit back and watch your friend intertain the women that your after....how do you think she is feeling when she is watching you sit there quietly, without a interesting thing on your mind....if your friend tells a joke, laugh! liven up a lil and show that you can be exciting and interesting to....if he is a dj, then just follow his lead (if your shy, this should be a good way to get you outta that mode) soon you will be taking control..and he will be asking you! "man how do you do it"!...good luck Pimp
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WHoa. Dang E_ze05 u understood exactly what i was trying to say. YEh dude. HE is a DJ me and him Visit the site all the time. But he has a babe. and yeh he was the one intertaining most of the time. Dang.

And for an update. I didnt get the girl. Cause the girl who was hookin me up with the girl. Introduced her to this fag down the street. And now she likes him! aint dat fuked?
 
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