"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I fugded up. What do I do?

Diaforetikos

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I was texting this girl I liked, but I said something about her taste in men. Me being a dumbass said something about her taste in men, jokingly. But it didn't land. She took it offensivly. How do I fix this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Diaforetikos

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I was just texting her to see if she was working today. She mentioned some stuff about someone. I told her she was a big girl and she could handle it. Anyways, I asked who she was workin with. It was a nerdy guy. I made a comment about the nerdy guy being her new boyfriend. Being silly. She said gross. I made another comment about her choice in men.

She's one of my coworker. Our relationship was shaky at first, but we worked things out. As of late we've gotten really close. I just have been takinit slow with while I work with other girls. She has a bf too, but that's not stopping me.

What are my options?
 
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