"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I froze =(

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So my HB8.7 co-worker was giving me a ride home tonight, I had her laughing and kinoing me. I'm naturally funny, so that was flowing but I really need to work on my kino. It just seems so awkward to kino when you're sitting next to someone in a car.

Annnyways, we pulled into my driveway and since my plan to ask her in for a drink was ruined (told me previously she didn't drink) I didn't know what to do. So we just said bye and parted ways.

She's a senior at a different high school than me, I'm a sophomore. What would you have done in this situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You: Wanna come in?

You: I have cool something to show you, come in.

You: Lets talk

You: Let me make you some hot chocolate
 

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
You: Wanna come in?

You: I have cool something to show you, come in.

You: Lets talk

You: Let me make you some hot chocolate
Yeah, I'm a moron. I don't know why I didn't say something like that.

Anyways, if I thought I'd have a shot at a senior a couple months ago I'd be kidding myself. Thanks everyone :)
 

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u could jsut casually ask her if she wants to come in and chill for awhile, watch some t.v , listen to music w/e, u can do other stuff besides drink hahaha, hell girl's have come over to play twister... just me and her.. haha the game never lasts long...:D
 

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Originally posted by the_reader
hell girl's have come over to play twister... just me and her.. haha the game never lasts long...:D
thats like when u say, "hey, lets put a movie on.... and not watch the movie....^_-"

haha.... good times.... gooooood times....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol haha, actually one of my odl ex's, her parents went out and it was just me over at her house.. we planned to put a movie on, so that if her parents came home we'd look all innocent... but we never even got that far hahaha i think we turned on the dvd player... and then well .. use your imagination.. haha when her parents came home they knew we didn't watch any movies :cool:
 

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LoL.. nah the best set up is to tell your parents that your coming over for bible study .
 

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Originally posted by Phat
LoL.. nah the best set up is to tell your parents that your coming over for bible study .
.....thats retarded. and then if u get caught, u have that whole guilt with god thing, since u used his book to lie and score.

not that im religious or anything. :D
 

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If she was giving you the 'vibe' that she likes you, you should of asked her in. The worst thing that could of happened was her saying no. Next time you get an opportunity like this TAKE IT!!
 
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