jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hi friends!
Jhonny here!
I found the perfect example of a relationship with an Italian woman.
It's a "famous" couple who posts everything that happens to them on social media as if it were a "reality show" about their lives.
You can see here or here that this couple has precisely the problem that most Italian couples have, and which we've discussed almost every time.
(Since this is a visual example, I wanted to share it with you).
Basically, the classic woman who, every time she argues and makes up with her boyfriend, posts what happens on social media.
As you can see, the proof of these reconciliations are these "High Moments" that are advertised, while, there are no advertisements for "Low Moments," which people don't do on social media, but those are there and present behind the scenes.
As you can see, the profile is full of stories about how her husband is amazing, how he grew from a boy to a father, then a husband, and how he helped her grow up, etc.
Imagine that this nice guy (he's a low-level soccer player) here put up with all the crap this woman (a very famous high-level actress in Italy) put up with, and all her drama.
So for men here in Italy, the "classic Italian relationship" (or maybe it's just as common in your country): the woman is simply a pain in the ass, a nuisance, and the man does everything he can to tame her, remaining calm and kind over her, even if she will fire up drama and something is wrong every 2 or 3 days, then it's all ok for 10 or 15 days.
Confirmation that they almost always argue is here: https://www.105.net/micol-olivieri-sul-rapporto-col-marito-in-crisi-ogni-2-giorni/
In fact she says they argue every 2 days and how that is fundamental to rebuild the rapport.
As expected, toxic cycles perpetuate and the relationship "stays fresh".
So, this may seem silly, but it's the situation in which many friends, both high-value and low-value men, are in relationships with their women.
Here in Italy, those dynamics, are perfectly normal and cultural that if any sosuave man were to show up in a certain social circle with this type of woman, yes, his IDGAF attitude, or his indifference to them, might be attractive, but the problem is that he wouldn't have any way to get laid (because according to his ideals, a man of value doesn't **** women who are already taken), nor even have a relationship with them because it would last two days.
So, if you want to become a mature and valuable man in Italy, be prepared to have to look for a woman who is a real asset.
But I think this is also the situation in the US, or in other countries, while I'm sure there are countries with better "tendencies" for men.
But I can also confirm that there are friends whose women aren't that dramatic, but most of them, all of them, are.
They're hot, crazy, and uninhibited in bed, and that's exactly what keeps men hooked.
What about you? Would you keep a woman like that in a relationship?
Jhonny here!
I found the perfect example of a relationship with an Italian woman.
It's a "famous" couple who posts everything that happens to them on social media as if it were a "reality show" about their lives.
You can see here or here that this couple has precisely the problem that most Italian couples have, and which we've discussed almost every time.
(Since this is a visual example, I wanted to share it with you).
Basically, the classic woman who, every time she argues and makes up with her boyfriend, posts what happens on social media.
As you can see, the proof of these reconciliations are these "High Moments" that are advertised, while, there are no advertisements for "Low Moments," which people don't do on social media, but those are there and present behind the scenes.
As you can see, the profile is full of stories about how her husband is amazing, how he grew from a boy to a father, then a husband, and how he helped her grow up, etc.
Imagine that this nice guy (he's a low-level soccer player) here put up with all the crap this woman (a very famous high-level actress in Italy) put up with, and all her drama.
So for men here in Italy, the "classic Italian relationship" (or maybe it's just as common in your country): the woman is simply a pain in the ass, a nuisance, and the man does everything he can to tame her, remaining calm and kind over her, even if she will fire up drama and something is wrong every 2 or 3 days, then it's all ok for 10 or 15 days.
Confirmation that they almost always argue is here: https://www.105.net/micol-olivieri-sul-rapporto-col-marito-in-crisi-ogni-2-giorni/
In fact she says they argue every 2 days and how that is fundamental to rebuild the rapport.
As expected, toxic cycles perpetuate and the relationship "stays fresh".
So, this may seem silly, but it's the situation in which many friends, both high-value and low-value men, are in relationships with their women.
Here in Italy, those dynamics, are perfectly normal and cultural that if any sosuave man were to show up in a certain social circle with this type of woman, yes, his IDGAF attitude, or his indifference to them, might be attractive, but the problem is that he wouldn't have any way to get laid (because according to his ideals, a man of value doesn't **** women who are already taken), nor even have a relationship with them because it would last two days.
So, if you want to become a mature and valuable man in Italy, be prepared to have to look for a woman who is a real asset.
But I think this is also the situation in the US, or in other countries, while I'm sure there are countries with better "tendencies" for men.
But I can also confirm that there are friends whose women aren't that dramatic, but most of them, all of them, are.
They're hot, crazy, and uninhibited in bed, and that's exactly what keeps men hooked.
What about you? Would you keep a woman like that in a relationship?