I found out I'm not such a loser I thought (or used to be?)

[ImSoHorny005]

You may remember my yesterday's despairing thread. Just wanted to share my gladness and a little confidence increase with you...

You all were damn right saying that the C&F comes instantly with your well-being...

Well, what happened - nothing special, but I'm sure you remember the moment you first saw that what you learned works.

A month ago I started to attend a high school and there was an OK-looking girl. I told to myself I'll try what I learned on her, because she is very extroverted and seems to show her feelings to everyone quite obviously (body language, smile, ignoring you etc.). First, I tried to apply something I learned from the body language section and see - not only I looked more confident, but I really FELT that way.

Then I remembered one thing said by someone on this forum (I really don't remember his nick, sorry) - it's the only definition of ****y & funny I ever saw - it was something like "It's an excessive self-confidence, while it's obvious you are not serious." or something like that - that was a priceless advice, thank you. So I just acted this way and couldn't believe it's so easy and I was quite sure I'm doing it right. After ONLY ONE C&F LINE (really, just one line) she seemed to absolutely change her mind - she (and her friend too, by the way ) smiled at me all the time and wanted to chat on and on (usually she seemed to want to stop talking to me ASAP and never start again).

I know there haven't much happened, but I'm absolutely sure I increased my "rating" to at least 7 in just a second, although she obviously thought I'm a loser for the whole month.

And, I was looking at those of my classmates that are successful with girls and those who aren't and I exactly could tell why - which is a good thing to start with in my opinion.

I'm getting the so often recommended "Comedy Writing Secrets" book in the next couple of days in order to start developing my C&F personality to the perfection.

I hope this helped to anyone who was at the same situation I was yesterday . I think the process of changing my life just started thanks to this site .

 

[Dukester]

C&F is a very effective tool. It comes easy for some, but not for others.

i.e. I am naturally like that, but only when I became a DJ, i learned to use it to my advantage.

if C&F is not u, dont change yourself

 

[ImSoHorny005]

Originally posted by Dukester
C&F is a very effective tool. It comes easy for some, but not for others.

i.e. I am naturally like that, but only when I became a DJ, i learned to use it to my advantage.

if C&F is not u, dont change yourself

I'm afraid I'll have to change myself a bit if I want to succeed. You were born ****y and funny, I was born a loser and I have to do something about it if I don't want to stay loser till the end of my life.

 

[Dukester]

Originally posted by ImSoHorny005
I'm afraid I'll have to change myself a bit if I want to succeed. You were born ****y and funny, I was born a loser and I have to do something about it if I don't want to stay loser till the end of my life.

nobody's a loser dude, unless you think that way.

i have a good post about confidence that i think can help ya

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=58654

 

[Recluce]

lol you weren't born a loser. you gradually accepted the social status of a loser in public. by being on this board you show that you have the desire to get this part of your life handled, which in my book, elevates you above that loser status to the same level as everyone else here who is trying to get this part of their life handled.

 

[frivolousz21]

first off man by coming here..you are not a loser...welcome.

2nd u need to beat the loser idea out of you like the Cardinals are going to be the cubs if they make the playoffs

CHEERS

and good luck man

 

[MRomeo99]

You're sixteen dude. You haven't even figured out who the hell you are yet. Much less gotten pigeonholed into loser status. You can be anything you want to be, but it will take work. I went from being homeless for almost a year, to being a successful real estate investor. I have remade myself numerous times, and I started much later in life than you did. You found this site earlier than most did. You could "own" your high school if you decide you want to.

I would recommend getting The Psychology of Achievement by Brian Tracy. You can usually pick it up on Ebay every day for $10-20. Start listening to it, and you could be fabulously successful in every area of your life, not just women.

Don't ever even consider the idea that you're a loser, no one can make you a "loser" except you.

Keep studying, keep learning, and be just a little better today than you were yesterday. Get a genuine curiousity of what makes people work, that will make you naturally interested in others, and conversely make others interested in you. I recommend learning Handwriting Analysis or Palm Reading, that could be a killer "trick" to know in high school.

HTH,

M

 

[Hollowpoint]

*Sniff* That was beautiful!

Much better than all these losers WHINING on the forum.
Don't whine! Be positive!!!

 

[Tha Realnezz]

C+F is for rookies.

Everybody does that.


Your just setting yourself up for headgames cuz you're too open.Be more mysterious and work on your look...that's what's up.