I found my main PROBLEM NO SHi*

[thelonewolflegend]

i know its all starts in your head and things are swell for real but the problem I have is i realized when I think about asking her for a date or about the date my head starts to try to think of worries or negatives on purpose like oh date isnt gonna work or she wont like me or she wont think im fun. Whats the best way to clean this bull**** out of cleanse your brain and not care and know it will work it even if it doesnt its not the end of the world and just be your best and have fun?

 

[crgideon]

I know your main problem, you're fat.

 

[_sideways_]

Lol ^

 

[DragonBlood]

Whats the best way to clean this bull**** out of cleanse your brain and not care

Be free from outcome. Be the center of the party. As long as you want something from the girl, instead of focusing on having fun, you will overthink it and lose the girl.

 

[Konada]

Read Mark Manson's book Models. It pretty much solved my dating anxiety which was similar to yours.