"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I found my main PROBLEM NO SHi*

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i know its all starts in your head and things are swell for real but the problem I have is i realized when I think about asking her for a date or about the date my head starts to try to think of worries or negatives on purpose like oh date isnt gonna work or she wont like me or she wont think im fun. Whats the best way to clean this bull**** out of cleanse your brain and not care and know it will work it even if it doesnt its not the end of the world and just be your best and have fun?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DragonBlood

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thelonewolflegend said:
Whats the best way to clean this bull**** out of cleanse your brain and not care
Be free from outcome. Be the center of the party. As long as you want something from the girl, instead of focusing on having fun, you will overthink it and lose the girl.
 

Konada

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Read Mark Manson's book Models. It pretty much solved my dating anxiety which was similar to yours.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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