I find this woman's advice entertaining...

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Huffman

Master Don Juan

Jun 2, 2016

... and in a positive way!

Stumbled over this article, where women try to explain how to game and keep the man of their lives:
http://www.marsvenus.com/blog/laure...ately-improve-communication-with-your-partner
(did NOT watch the video, only text. Can't stand girl youtubers.)

First I thought why the hell am I even reading this? But hey, maybe I'm tripping, but all she says really hits home with me. I wish all women knew themselves so well, our relationships would be so much smoother!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.