I find the need of socialization in women is an unbearable obstacle

[Who Dares Win]

I'm not talking about being an introvert rather than an extrovert, I'm talking about their everyday life and life goals to be too often and too much people oriented rather than goal oriented.

While a guy mid term goal may be to drop fat and get lean mass, usually the average woman would pick to attend social events and meet new people or "travel" so she can has material for her social networks.

Even day by day usually a guy reach a point where he is satisfied when it comes of human relations and just wants to go home and watch tv on the sofa, a girl unless she is fully on her fb or instagram still feels the need to talk or have people around, we get the stereotypical husband trying to watch tv and his wife who needs to talk and expect full commitment from that conversation.

Apparently they find being alone and productive (a state that I love) as something untolerable and against nature, I keep hearing about "independant women" yet any time I got one in my life they didnt even leave me alone at night in the bed, they needed to disturb my sleep to cuddle.

At some point quiet and relax becomes a privilege unless you're living in pump and dump mode or monk mode.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I only date introvert intellectual types, mostly bypassed this. However, you do need to go out occasionally.

I get out everyday actually and I have no problem to talk with either people I know nor people I just met, I even like to go out in the evening or at night its just that at some point I have to cut the noise and rest.

Your suggestion may be a good starting point anyway, maybe I was just picking only extra social girls because they were the fastest to get intimate.

 

[The Duke]

In the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus it supports the same parallels you have made in regards to human relations. The book is about the different styles men/women use to solve problems and communicate. Men go to their cave and think about their issues in private. Women look to others to discuss with whomever will listen. lol.

Women all go to the bathroom together, men don't need coddling & hand holding to perform standard bathroom functions! But go girl power! You girls are such strong & independent creatures!!!!

 

[Billtx49]

Women look to others to discuss with whomever will listen.

Yes, they usually base their decisions at least partially on the common consensus of their female friends herd group depending on their self esteem and personal confidence level…

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I only date introvert intellectual types, mostly bypassed this. However, you do need to go out occasionally.

Intovert logicals let you be more logical and they behave more rationally to a man?

 

[wifehunter]

If she's chasing you, she's not going to be concerned about that next social gathering.

Let her orbit you.

 

[Alvafe]

If she's chasing you, she's not going to be concerned about that next social gathering.

Let her orbit you.

yes she will, the very least to tell then about you

 

[wifehunter]

yes she will, the very least to tell then about you

She has to catch you first, before that.

She can't chase you down and hang out with her friends, otherwise you'd have a gang of chicks after you! lolz!