"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I find myself recycling old girls....

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and I think that is why I'm not getting anywhere. I find myself attracting the same girls, and I don't even get anywhere with them. Like ex girlfriends, and girls that used/do like me. I have no problem attracting them, but it never really ggoes anywhere from there. Most of these girls I don't want a relationship with, I just kind of attract them unknowingly (well kinda). I just want to bone them but they're too much of "friends" to do it. You know what I mean? It's like a friends with benefit thing, except the "benefits" are very minimal.. it just kind of sucks.

All the decent girls are really preppy, and it just always seems akward trying to attract them because usually some meat head jock will step in.

I have been trying to gain more rep, I have changed my style a bit, but most of the popular guys are trying to put me down. I used to be into the whole emo/hardcore deal and adopted that style of dress (ahaha big mistake) I still enjoy the music, but dressing like that.. I don't know what I was thinking. But I'm over that, and now have my own style, but I still get made fun of for being emo even though I absolutely hate it.. so I don't know. I'm also really skinny, but I'm trying to bulk up.

I need some really major advice, and help..
 

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It seems like you have bigger problems than constantly dating dead-end girls that you don't get anywhere with.

How old are you and are you talking about high school or college?
 
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yeah, I have a bad habit of doing this as well. And it's usually out of desperation and because these girls are usually not really attractive at all and I know they'll probably be up for doing something with me again. I have to admit it's really pathetic and is proof that I still have the scavenger mentality. lol DEFINITELY NOT GOOD, MAN.
 
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That must had been it. This morning I told myself I wouldn't approach any "old" girls.

So I started talking to this girl in 4th. She is pretty hott, and amazingly just moved here from Alaska (whoah). She is like a HB8.5, started flirting with that. And then in 5th I was madly playing with this other girl. I flirt with her like almost every time I see her but today was just like whoah. She like wanted me to hump her today, I could feel it. Ahaha.

But anyway, point is.. don't attract the same girls. Most of the time they are downers anyway.. you put too much thought into it. "Why isnt she talking to me?" "Why did she do that?" blah blah. Start with a clean slate homes.

Peace.
 
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