"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I find myself only attracted to young girls

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SOmeone made this point simialr and its been on my mind a few years now.

In fact when I started college at 18 I looked about 12. I looked around and all I saw were so many grown up looking girls and fat. Some not even fat, just thick or just slight chubiness or ass a bit loose, in 20s some got a bit flab on arms etc...more off a belly. 25+ face starts to become ugly IMO. Not many females 30+ I find attractive facially at all.

I was starting to think I was gay but I wasnt attracted to dudes. I could just see no girls that aroused me.

Then, on holiday I met this girl who just turned 17 and her freinds and I was like BONERISED!! I was in my 20s but we had sex etc...I was loving her body and cute face and freshness.

Then I came home and realised that the reason I coudlnt find any attractive girls as I entered adulthood such as college and work was due to fact I was attracted to tight cute teenage girls.

I have been a job working in some high schools AND MAN!!! some off thie girls in their just give me instant boner. Well legal age in UK is 16 so aint nothing illegal. Though Im sure some 15 years old ain tbad either.

But IMO 16-18 is fine. I can find plenty to arouse me. But 18+ minimal, 20+ even less 25+ I dont think Id have sex with any girl 25+

So, Ill be 30 before I even know it and wants the point. Cant be cahsing 16-17 year old girls.

So, I been on holdiay to Thailand and I definatly got some attractive ones with nice tight bodies adn cute faces

BUT I like white girls, not asian girls, many asian girls got no boobs or ass. I dont really wanna live in Thailand.

so, i dunno what to do with my life?

I even visit the prostitutes here and most were older and did not arouse me like teenage girls.

Ive had women at work etc approach me interested in me. BUt I am not arosued at all. I was 5'10 115lbs at 18 like justin Beiber. I am now 20s and nearly 140lbs but abs and no bodyfat. I have to eat clean due to acen and dont drink alcohol or party much.

Even girls that were cute at 16-17 now have excess weight/fat and cellulite and ageing less cute/pretty face.

I even see now many 16+ girls are already fat or obese due to chainging lifestyle and modern diets. So, this limits my options even more.

I have used prostitutes such as Czech and POlish abroad and many these wome maintian perfect bodies and faces up to 25-30. But I dont live in eastern europe so that is no good to me.

Maybe Im just picky...BUT i can only get hard when I get hard know what I mean. Its not like I control it. Plus Im not emotional at all I only have physical sexual attraction.

Id move to Thailand but I dont really want to tbh. Other option is stuck here at home sexless and travel holdiay for sex eastern euorpe and Thailadn a few times per year.

Apart from high school girls (some not all) there is not many females that sexually arosue me here in my City, UK.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many threads do you make per week?
 
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This would be funny... if there wasn't that small chance that he's being serious.
 
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donnyjondeppjuando said:
....Then I came home and realised that the reason I coudlnt find any attractive girls as I entered adulthood such as college and work was due to fact I was attracted to tight cute teenage girls.
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As you entered adulthood? You have not entered adulthood yet. This has been made very clear by your posts.

GIVE UP THE PORN and regular (read: REAL) women will start to become more attractive.
 
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Yeah, half of this guys' posts (several per week) scream troll, and the other half scream "help me I'm clueless."

He can't be serious, because there are TONS of 20-somethings who have the bodies of older teenagers.

Stop watching porn if you think you need to sleep with a teen in order to enjoy it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Yeah, half of this guys' posts (several per week) scream troll, and the other half scream "help me I'm clueless."

He can't be serious, because there are TONS of 20-somethings who have the bodies of older teenagers.

Stop watching porn if you think you need to sleep with a teen in order to enjoy it.
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faces too....cute faces....ANyway not my city maybe yours. 25+ girls that look good aint gonna go with any dude either. young teens slut more.

Either they

A. look for bf material....

B. Only go with hot dudes....

Maybe theri is decent women out there but for me I really get aroused by cute teens. I like the high school girls (16+). they really do it for me. I dont know why. Only cute ones though. Loadsa grils 20+ all got excess fat that they never had when they were 16/17 etc....When I watch porno I definatley jerk off to older girls. But I dont see many older girls like pornstars roudn here lol. But I do see cute high school girls, guess they got ugly as they got older. Also, I think hot women go for masculine muscular guys not 5'10 140lbs boyish dudes. Whereas I get schoolgirls stalk me etc..lol


I mean so many cute teenage girls get fat and out of shape due to bad lifestyle.

Enter adulthood- lol mentally no but techincally birth certificate wise yes.


Also I guess it dont help im 5'10 140lbs. I mean if I want a cute smaller body then I be looking at young teens lol

Well Im workign on getting bigger I was 5'10 115lbs so that was worse
 
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There are no ugly women,it only needs more vodka.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Only gets funky when your interest is in your 12 year old daughter. In that case you can always move to France and become an iconic institution (see Serge and Charlotte Gainsbourg).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lemon_Incest
There is sleazy and then you have the French :yes:
 
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