"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I finally found out what made me get girls!

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My usual pattern: Have a girlfriend or a girl I have sex with and is romantic with.

As a wise man said, eventually all things come to an end. This is when Decay goes from being happy to being "ah sh it".

I am pissed off and I don't give a s hit anymore. I go into a bar, I don't give a care about anything, no considerations, I drink until I get pretty damn drunk, then I just go to the dancefloor and dance with every chick and I talk to every hot chick and I guess they sense I don't give a s hit, I don't care what they think of me or anything. I just approach with no hesistance, because I am pissed and annoyed and want some fun in life.

And that is how I end up with another girl the same day or the day after I'm done with the other girl.

Anyone else experienced this before?

Is the solution to getting girls, simply not to give a s hit?

Serious post, serious question. This has worked for me amazingly.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zinc64

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The Decay of Meaning said:
My usual pattern: Have a girlfriend or a girl I have sex with and is romantic with.

Things go to hell eventually.

I am pissed off and I don't give a s hit anymore. I go into a bar, I don't give a care about anything, no considerations, I drink until I get pretty damn drunk, then I just go to the dancefloor and dance with every chick and I talk to every hot chick and I guess they sense I don't give a s hit, I don't care what they think of me or anything. I just approach with no hesistance, because I am pissed and annoyed and want some fun in life.

And that is how I end up with another girl the same day or the day after I'm done with the other girl.

Anyone else experienced this before?

Is the solution to getting girls, simply not to give a s hit?

Serious post, serious question. This has worked for me amazingly.

I have done this same thing ever since I started drinking. Though sometimes I get a little too wasted.
 

Mistic

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What they are likely perceiving is a lack of desperation. It's not that being really drunk and not giving a **** is attractive in itself. It is just more attractive than clingy/insecure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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