Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I finally found out what made me get girls!

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The Decay of Meaning

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My usual pattern: Have a girlfriend or a girl I have sex with and is romantic with.

As a wise man said, eventually all things come to an end. This is when Decay goes from being happy to being "ah sh it".

I am pissed off and I don't give a s hit anymore. I go into a bar, I don't give a care about anything, no considerations, I drink until I get pretty damn drunk, then I just go to the dancefloor and dance with every chick and I talk to every hot chick and I guess they sense I don't give a s hit, I don't care what they think of me or anything. I just approach with no hesistance, because I am pissed and annoyed and want some fun in life.

And that is how I end up with another girl the same day or the day after I'm done with the other girl.

Anyone else experienced this before?

Is the solution to getting girls, simply not to give a s hit?

Serious post, serious question. This has worked for me amazingly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Decay of Meaning said:
My usual pattern: Have a girlfriend or a girl I have sex with and is romantic with.

Things go to hell eventually.

I am pissed off and I don't give a s hit anymore. I go into a bar, I don't give a care about anything, no considerations, I drink until I get pretty damn drunk, then I just go to the dancefloor and dance with every chick and I talk to every hot chick and I guess they sense I don't give a s hit, I don't care what they think of me or anything. I just approach with no hesistance, because I am pissed and annoyed and want some fun in life.

And that is how I end up with another girl the same day or the day after I'm done with the other girl.

Anyone else experienced this before?

Is the solution to getting girls, simply not to give a s hit?

Serious post, serious question. This has worked for me amazingly.
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I have done this same thing ever since I started drinking. Though sometimes I get a little too wasted.
 
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What they are likely perceiving is a lack of desperation. It's not that being really drunk and not giving a **** is attractive in itself. It is just more attractive than clingy/insecure.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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