"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I finally did it... I became asexual !

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Duffdog said:
great, next you are going to wake up when you are 48 years old and realize you were wrong and wasted your life. Then, you will go shoot a bunch of girls in a gym because you are mad at them for not having sex with you.
Morrissey turned into a mass murderer?

If the lad wants to be asexual then all the power to him, it's not a life I could live, but at least he isn't knee deep in oneitis, that would be far worse for his mental state.

Whatever bakes your cake mate, you stick to your guns.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"A true DJ is to not give two shiets about girls or what they think of them"

I disagree... you should care to some degree, I fully understand it's about self improvement... but.. It's been said many a times that a DJ is a man who is comfortable and happy with himself...the reason he does not care is because he is happy, and by being good to himself and taking care of his situation, he can now give those positive vibes to others.... so in essence he does care, just not in the sense you would think.

He does not shun women and consider them all vapid *****s not worth his time...Do right by yourself and everything falls into place behind you.
 
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