"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Finally Approached!!! (Newbie Match Report from Last Night)

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My friend and I went out last night. And after 45 minutes of literally being paralyzed by fear, I managed to open a set!! (In the end, I had to bet my friend £5 that I could open the first one before him, and it STILL took us ages to actually do it)

All in all I managed 8 cold approaches. About half that were receptive and chatty. Funny thing, none of the girls were the sort that either myself or my friend would actually want to sleep with, yet we were still terrified.

Another funny thing - and this was the big insight - once I started approaching, I felt terrific. The more I approached (and got blown off), the better I felt. And even though I ended last night alone in my bed masturbating, it felt magnificent.

10 / 100 cold approaches for 2016 done :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's easy to mock people's perceived failure when you don't have the courage to do it yourself.

Even if I get blown off I don't see that as Failure. It's success of sorts.

Great work OP- You overcame Fear. You won't always go away with a number or a lay but you're doing something that if you continue to do it will improve your confidence.

How liberating is it to finally be free of fear? You feel you can fly. Remember that feeling. Fear is a prison we create in our own minds.
 
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