I finally am getting this, read this guys

[Mr. Cardio]

Did you guys check out the Pook article called, Structure of Worlds? It is overall talking about the trap of marriage, etc. But this is what Pook said in a reply, he was using the employer to employee relationship compared to a man and woman relationship. This is what he said:

What really gets the employer is if the employee leaves to start his own business. You are ok in job interviews saying you want big paychecks, but say you want to start your own business? Pssshhtt! You're gone. Why does the employer fear the entrepreneur more than the 'greedy' employee? Because the employee will always search for security, hence he is already in the 'correct' mindset (in the employer's eyes). It is the same with women. Women like guys who have their choice of women. But they HATE guys who do not need them.

Guys, this soooooooooooooo fits me. I dont really need close friends to have a good time, and I dont need women at all to have a great time......but heres the thing, you know I do all the don juan things as I stated in another thread, and I had been doing them naturally. Now, heres my question.....

Can the don juan attitude and lifestyle, actually be a turn-off? I mean, I believe and have experienced what Pook was saying in the example, I have my own mind and my own thoughts, I dont fit a mode, and I notice how some people dont like that....but, isnt that a don juan? Oh yes! So actually, the REAL don juans, are not what women want. If you ask me, women just want men who are successful to a point, but that they can somehow, some way, control a bit. Do you guys see what I am saying, I mean basically, the REAL don juans, are hated! Guys discuss this, this is just something I noticed......oh my.

 

[joekerr31]

90% of communication is non verbal.

if you're giving of non verbal signs that you can take it or leave it, then women probably aren't going to put their self esteem on the line by throwing themselves at you.

women need to know that on some level you want them in order for them to want to get with you.

women love confident men, but at the same time they need to feel like they have some control over that man, that their powers of seduction will work ultimately. that hes a challenge, but one that can be conquored.

if they get the sense that you're your own man through and through, and that you dont NEED a woman ultimately, they aren't going to waste their time.

its like a car salesman. the moment he knows that your a hard ass and no matter what he says or does he's not going to get you to budge from your the price you're willing to pay, he'll either conceed or cut negotiations short.

women are the same way. if they sense that there is no negotiation room then they'll just move on to the next customer.

J

 

[MetalFortress]

My boss knows that I want to start my own business and she doesn't care. Aside from that, though, your post makes almost no sense Mr. Cardio.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

Well I was just asking more of to why some people would hate those who are more content with themselves and life in general, who are happy with or without a woman. Just some things I experience that I still dont have an answer for. Like some women that I am close with, they will say in public, You are gettin on my nerves! Now, I dont know if its a joke, or do they really mean it? Not to sound stupid for asking that question, but I do joke around with women and maybe that is their way of joking? I am not sure if shes serious or not, because she is still sort of attracted to me. I dunno......