"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I figured out why women grow up into slvts so early these days

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Ever wondered why girls start having sex so early on in life in our day and age?

Simple. Testosterone makes them want to fak. Back in the day they'd do physical activity like house work etc, but today we gotten too lazy. Thus testosterone levels in their body force them to seek out sexual gratification.

You will notice that girls from lousy parent families, or rich idiots, start having sex earlier and become more sluttier than those that have a "good upbringing", ie parents force them to do house chores and discipline.

It's way too faking simple! It's not society in the way you think, society merely makes it uncool to work and promotes laziness and feminism, then nature takes over.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude. You don't even know what the "fak" you're talking about. It's nice you're thinking outside the box but don't think you're right.

Girls having been getting pregnant at 15 and younger for 100's of years. It is true that both MALES And FEMALES are maturing(physically) earlier than previously documented.

There's dudes that bang early too.
 

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has nothing to do with that

its just every generation tries it younger and younger is all, in reality kids are becoming bad. about 2 weeks ago i visited my friend and he told me that his little brother asked him what it means to get head....when asked why he is asking he said that the guys in his class were talking about getting head from the girls in the bathrooms....he just started the 6th grade


One of my teachers pointed out something interesting to us my senior year in HS:

In 1955, in a recorded study the worst things students were doing was:
1)Chewing gum
2)running in the halls
3)Showing up late to class


Today(she said it in 2010) the worst things students are doing:
1)Over abuse drugs an alchohol
2)Get killed in car accidents from drinking and driving
3)Having unprotected sex, unplanned pregnancies and even as far as catching STD's before they turn 18



so ya as you can tell its just every generation gets worse
 

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I blame shows like "Teen Mom" and "16 and Pregnant." Teenage girls grow up watching those when their parents aren't around for the few hours between when their school bus drops them off and work ends or the fact that Tv raises many kids nowadays. Things like those shows will influence a girl into thinking that is normal to an extent. Notice the "rise" of the press of this kind of issue since those shows have come to national attention?

http://news.softpedia.com/news/How-Does-TV-Influence-Your-Life-73967.shtml

^ Good article on what I'm talking about. It talks about violent behavior as the forefront but its not too much of a stretch to think that watching soap operas and shows like the ones I listed above don't influence how a woman thinks when they are a teenager.
 

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I believe the media has got alot to do with girls/guys bein to fvck earlier and earlier. What you see on the media nowadays is couples making out and then ending up fvcking each other later, it's always the same old thing. When sex gets emphasize as some 'holy grail' to mankind people naturally get curious about it. That and also the constant preaching of sex being the 'forbidden fruit'.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I also Consider media as one of the reason
Fashion industries, where they sexualize young girls
you will see racy pictures all over media these days.
 

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It's the media, feminists, and the fact that children are growing up in dysfunctional families.

To put it bluntly, children are growing up watching their parents fight/argue, so they have no idea what "love" is. Others grow up with only one parent, which gives them an unbalanced outlook on masculinity/femininity. They're trying to replace the "love" they don't get at home with sexual gratification.

I agree the media/society can be extremely impressionable, but at the same time I think a lot of people are failing as parents.

-Scars
 

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Scars said:
It's the media, feminists, and the fact that children are growing up in dysfunctional families.

To put it bluntly, children are growing up watching their parents fight/argue, so they have no idea what "love" is. Others grow up with only one parent, which gives them an unbalanced outlook on masculinity/femininity. They're trying to replace the "love" they don't get at home with sexual gratification.

I agree the media/society can be extremely impressionable, but at the same time I think a lot of people are failing as parents.

-Scars
Scars hit the nail on the head blame it on parents, then media/feminism

Parents should be the number one force to regulate how their kids behave but parents are actually perpetuating this BS!

AND If a girl does grow up in a two-parent household she gets "brainwashed"

think about it

Daddy calls her "princess" all the time
I've seen 6 year olds with cell phones, wtf does a 6 year old need with a cell phone?
10 year olds on facebook

Daddy buying his 12 year old "princess" laptops and telling her she is the most deceitful girl in the world

you get my drift
 
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People have always been promiscuous from early ages. My European history teacher called the Victorian age the "age of pornography" for goodness sake! Find some older DJs and talk to them... and I mean old DJ's like guys in their 80s. If they were DJ's when they were in highschool, listen to their stories about the girls they banged.

The 80/20 rule has always applied. 80% of the women have always been getting stuck with 20% of the male genitalia.

SO why do things seem different now - The 1960s.

The 1960s created a sense of moral freedom to discuss things in public that were previously restricted to taboo private discussion. Suddenly, it was okay to be banging women outside of marriage or around marriage and be talking about it. We tacitly responded to this newfound freedom as a society, but have been slow to fully embrace it, and we're really still not there. We're just further along than we were.

As an exercise to see what I'm talking about, watch an episode of Leave it to ******, Andy Griffith, or Bonanza. Then watch an episode of Pretty Little Liars, Gilmore Girls, or One Tree Hill.

The first series is what the media presented as reality before the sexual revolution of the 1960s. The second series is what the media is presenting now. Do you notice a difference in the message between these two groups?

Also, you're assertion that people suddenly started having promiscuous sex all of a sudden unlike all previous generations insinuates that the fundamental "beast" of humanity changed somewhere along the last 50 years. That doesn't fly with the evolutionary psychology theories that PUA's use to develop technique. Starting 100 years ago and then going back in time to our first appearance on Earth, most people were married and having their first kid by the time kids today are in middle school. We have a huge number of generational evolutionary patterns built in to us that make us want to f$ck at an early age. That's just not practical in today's culture because of age of consent laws and society expecting people to at least graduate highschool before they get married and enter the rat race.

That also doesn't mean that your assertion can't be right. But I don't think it is, because what would preempt humans en-mass to radically alter their sexual behavior within the course of 1 or 2 generations when 10s to 100s of generations have ingrained the opposite behavior in us?

I don't think anything has changed besides the freedom society bestows on us to talk more freely about sex.

EDIT: I can't believe this censored the word B_eaver when I referenced the TV show..... LMFAO
 

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Scars said:
It's the media, feminists, and the fact that children are growing up in dysfunctional families.

To put it bluntly, children are growing up watching their parents fight/argue, so they have no idea what "love" is. Others grow up with only one parent, which gives them an unbalanced outlook on masculinity/femininity. They're trying to replace the "love" they don't get at home with sexual gratification.

I agree the media/society can be extremely impressionable, but at the same time I think a lot of people are failing as parents.

-Scars
Really interesting concept to which I agree.

Here an article I found while working yesterday morning.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/05/090527210730.htm



Solomon said:
Scars hit the nail on the head blame it on parents, then media/feminism

Parents should be the number one force to regulate how their kids behave but parents are actually perpetuating this BS!

AND If a girl does grow up in a two-parent household she gets "brainwashed"

think about it

Daddy calls her "princess" all the time
I've seen 6 year olds with cell phones, wtf does a 6 year old need with a cell phone?
10 year olds on facebook

Daddy buying his 12 year old "princess" laptops and telling her she is the most deceitful girl in the world

you get my drift
You are right in what you said however this works only when the parents are deviants themselves.

Naturally a mother is supposed to nurture and give cares to their children while the father is suppose to teach discipline,honor and the respect for laws.

Of course an afc father (yeah a man can be afc even toward daughters) or a cold hearthed mother makes more damages than an orphans shelter.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Agreed parents are the root course, but lets be honest 13-18 years your not a kid anymore and should think for yourself about the consequences etc. And stop putting the blame on others. I don't know. Any one agree?
 

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SamTheHobit said:
Agreed parents are the root course, but lets be honest 13-18 years your not a kid anymore and should think for yourself about the consequences etc. And stop putting the blame on others. I don't know. Any one agree?
Tends to be why soap operas and teen mom like shows target people in that age bracket.
 
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