I feel worse your thoughts on this, be honest appr.

[TheGambino]

Ive been in Morocco for 4 weeks now, vacation. 4 times a week i go out with my nephew for drinks in clubs. The clubs are mixed half normal girls Just like in Europa looking to have fun and half *****s who go out for money. Most situations I escalate have fun have drinks dance and take the girl home. Been True the finest girls. My nephew is a real natural don Juan hè f*cks any girl and lies That hes a doctor and has plenty of money, hè doesnt give a sh1t about women. hè has no heart at all anyway 2 days ago I met a 22year old girl, i was drunk and told her i dont speak arabic (i do). I danced with her had fun and told her ill pay 150 euros she agreed and was all over me. That night i wanted to f*ck at any Cost coz it was my last night renting the appartement so i told her i pay. Took her home best sex she loved it and i lied ill take you to Holland we do this and That blablabla and she fell asleep in my arms. Dont have much money left so i lied to her That my bank has problems and That ill pay her the next day. She blows up my phone all day and tonight i told her Come to X club and i paid a bottle we drunk. We danced kissed she told me i need money if i dont go out my little sisters aint gonna eat.. She cried when she got drunk. My nephew f*ccked her
friend that first night didnt pay anything and f*cked my girl too, we always do that with wh0res but this was different she didnt like it and begged me with her eyes to tell him to back off. She told me i want you only. After hè f*ccked (she claims only kissing) for 3 minutes max she came back to me and told me she was gonna Leave all in tears. (this was That first night). So 1hour ago we had drinks and my nephew saw her friend came in to the club hè went to the bathroom and called me to leave the table asap. I kissed my girl told her be right back paid for the table and went home. She called me 42 times and send texts me where are you im taking a cab to your home. And last text was im never going to forget what youve done to me. I feel worse about it. What r your thoughts guys

F*cking she calls me crying now..

 

[TheGambino]

Some guy labeled my post troll, if i lied i would only lie to myself. Its the truth and im not proud of it

 

[Greasy Pig]

I don't understand, you fvcked a prostitute, didn't pay her, then your nephew fvcked her and then she came back to you?
If she's a hooker, why do you give a shyt?

 

[TheGambino]

Coz shes crying that she needs money and That she likes me and blabla maybe games so i still give her the cash or she really does lyk me. I think both but idk

 

[apprenticedj]

Gambino I've seen you on this forum for a while so I'll trust that you're not trolling.

Some would say she's a ***** you cares but you do seem to care. What can you do? If you really care you should pay her what you agreed to pay. If it means your broke until your next payday so be it, you made the deal now you need to pay up.

In the future I would suggest you pick your compadres better. Let me make this clear: your nephew is NOT a Don Juan, not even close. If you have to lie about yourself in order to impress hookers in a club you're a chump, straight up.

I truly believe this: two of the forgotten virtues amongst DJs are honor and integrity. Honor to yourself most of all, extended to others. Integrity in being the kind of man that means what he says. This includes life, love, business and yes, even to Moroccan prostitutes. Respect yourself, you're better than lying to hookers to get laid.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

Gambino I've seen you on this forum for a while so I'll trust that you're not trolling.

Some would say she's a ***** you cares but you do seem to care. What can you do? If you really care you should pay her what you agreed to pay. If it means your broke until your next payday so be it, you made the deal now you need to pay up.

In the future I would suggest you pick your compadres better. Let me make this clear: your nephew is NOT a Don Juan, not even close. If you have to lie about yourself in order to impress hookers in a club you're a chump, straight up.

I truly believe this: two of the forgotten virtues amongst DJs are honor and integrity. Honor to yourself most of all, extended to others. Integrity in being the kind of man that means what he says. This includes life, love, business and yes, even to Moroccan prostitutes. Respect yourself, you're better than lying to hookers to get laid.

Honour and integrity are spooks invented to get young men to walk into battle and get hacked (or shot) to bits.

However, this:

Respect yourself, you're better than lying to hookers to get laid.

rings true in my experience. Lying to get women betrays weak inner game and I've found that indulging those insecurities - even if you think they are not insecurities - only hurts you in the end.

 

[SmooveMooves]

I cosign what apprencticedj said, he's spot on.

However, I disagree on the paying her bit. Fvck that, forget about her and the situation & move on.

Next time though, stick to your word.

I always believed the difference between a PUA and a DJ was integrity.

For me getting pvssy because I'm ME, is FAR more satisfying than getting pvssy because I said I'm a doctor and Bill Gates cuts my grass.

Over that vacation you weren't a Suave DJ, but a mere sleezy AFC PUA.

You know you're better than that, as do we here at SS.

That being said, you shouldn't feel bad in the slightest. The world is a fvcked up place and people get fvcked everyday 24. Your actions were bad from your moral standpoint, but you made them already and can't change it. So beating yourself up over it, is as pointless as eating soup with a fork.

You have to accept your actions, good or bad, and learn to live from them and with what they taught you.

You're definetly not proud of what you did, so what does that mean from here?

That'll you'll consider how your actions affect others and make sure they align with your morals so you don't feel like bad/guilty after you make them.

Goodluck TheGambino.

 

[mangotot]

Its a totally insincere thing to do, even if she is a wh0re. Maybe arrange to send the money. €150 is little money in Europe but it is a lot in a poor country like North Africa.

 

[TheGambino]

Guys thanks for thé feedback i feel bad about my actions with this girl i have to admit i got influenced by my nephew Who doesnt give à sh1t and lies all thé time. Though hé doesnt need to lie to gét laid hes à master in charm, escelates from thé start, neggs all thé time and push pulls like thé Best. Hé looks good also. All this dj techniques without knowing what à dj is all of expériences. His phone is ringing girls all Day they pay for him its ridiculous. Anyway she cried on thé phone for an hour and today she texted me i dont want to see you éver again. Coz i promised hér sévèral times im going to send hér thé 150 euros when i gét back in holland, tommorow. Thanks again for pushing me back on thé real dj road with respect for yourself and everyone around you.

 

[TheGambino]

She calls me now asking what im up too and if im going out. Girls always surprise me..

 

[mangotot]

Coz i promised hér sévèral times im going to send hér thé 150 euros when i gét back in holland, tommorow. Thanks again for pushing me back on thé real dj road with respect for yourself and everyone around you.

I bet €150 you do not send €150 to this prostitute.

 

[asa_don]

I don't understand, you fvcked a prostitute, didn't pay her, then your nephew fvcked her and then she came back to you?
If she's a hooker, why do you give a shyt?

yeah, what's up with that?

this is another b.s. troll thread, he asks for help, then he solves his own problem like trolls do.

Coz i promised hér sévèral times im going to send hér thé 150 euros when i gét back in holland, tommorow. Thanks again for pushing me back on thé real dj road with respect for yourself and everyone around you.

my ass you're sending any money to her, this is all b.s., just like the other ones you post.

 

[TheGambino]

Asa nerd dont be mad That People havea a adventurous life where stuff like this actually happens not like your crappy country full of lame as People as yoself. I dont have any reason to troll. Belive me or not i dont give à sh1t you dont even know what morocco is like. Go hate somewhere else kid. Offcourse i accept real feedback even if its negative appreciateThat but accusing me of trolling is bs every single word i éver posted on sosuave is thé truth.