"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i feel that i am cheating girls if i am not in LTR

callmemister

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it is i believe the biggest if not only one problem i have.
simply i believe that if i dont propose a LTR to girls
that i am using them.
the other may be that i think that girls only wants LTR and nothing else.


heeeelp


thanx
alex
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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itishe

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This happens in small towns especially due to the small population. Girls tend to know every other girl, so if you take one on a date others know about it. If you go on a date with one they tend to think you're exclusive.
 

Jay Jay

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I struggled with that. I believed all that **** about girls only using sex to get love.

But I got cured when I went off the rails (drugs and alcohol). I was still a massively sexy bastard but very bad relatiobship material.

I ***sob*** I was USED!!!

Time and time again girls told me they thought it was just casual fling.

I feel so dirty...

JJ
 

Fash

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
That's because you are an idiot.
:crackup:

Dude, grow some balls and lay the chicks that you find attractive. Keep the nice ones, throw away the not so nice ones.

Also, did you ever think that maybe girls sometimes just wanna keep it casual too? and not dive into an LTR???

Don't let your morals c0ck block you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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