Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
20Corona's, at least he didn't say "literally" my girlfriend so I'm ok with it.but it does, at least, you (generalized) who is guilty of this know what NOT to say next time because it makes you sound like you trying to feel validated.
The best word to use is "woman". A woman in the throes of sexual ecstasy of your pumping is not going to say, "you are my boyfriend" or "you are my husband", but rather "you are my MAN".There's isn't another term that's good to describe a non-marital romantic partner. "Significant other" isn't ideal either. Girlfriend is the best term. It is possible to go overboarding saying "girlfriend". There was even a similar Seinfeld dialogue.