"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I feel SO bad :(

gettingstronger

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i feeel so bad. ive just slept with a hooker. I paid her £9 and some change , almost £10 and fvcked her . Oh god i feel so bad . i really dont know what to do :(

i have always despised men who use hookers for sex and now i have become one of them. i feel so crap right now. ive made a terrible blunder, a horrible mistake and i wish i can turn back time. what the fvkc have i done :(:(:(

i dunno if she had STDs or anyhing. i used a condom .

i was out sarging chicks all day and i was ultra horny all day long. I saw the hooker and she asked me if i wanted business. i was so horny that i just followed her and told her i want oral sex. we got to her house and i told her i want to fvck. So she said ok. Then i did it. God i feel so low right now, i feel so fucvk low and crp right now. i have let my self down. i have done something disgusting :(

i am feeling so bad right now. please help, i dont know what i should do and dont know how i am exactly feeling. im lost right now.

pleass help
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, this seems like a joke post but if its serious...

Relax little buddy.

You had fun didn't you?

Oh and if you are feeling that bad about things you can try and cheer yourself up by saying that perhaps the money you spent on her will go to feed any children she has.

Well anyway try and feel better in anyway that you can pal and definitely get yourself checked out for STD's when you get the chance.
 

ViciousDADogg

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Geez, you're a like a girl, feel guilty after you're done.


Yea, true. You paid a woman for sex. That means you're game needs fine tuning.
 

gettingstronger

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i feel so bad because i am in a long term relationshhip right now. its been 1.5 yrs at least. this will be on my conscence :(

i come from a religious family too and this is a huge sin i have commited. men who use hookers are losers and ive done just that :(

at that very moment all my rational thoughts stopped and animal instincts took over. i just followed what she said. i hadnt busted a nut for 2 weeks prior to that and i was ultr horny. my urges took over me :(

i wish it didnt happen. i feel bad about this and i will NEVER EVER EvER do that again :(
 

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ok, so you're worried about religion and sins, yet you're sarging other babes AND sexing your gf out of wedlock? :rolleyes: Try to be a little consistent, will you?

You think it's only ok to sex hors when you feel some kind of EMOTIONAL CONNECTION to them? Boy are you dead wrong! Wake up!!! The matrix has you! At least all you lost to this hor was 25 bucks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mental

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gettingstronger said:
i feel so bad because i am in a long term relationshhip right now. its been 1.5 yrs at least. this will be on my conscence :(

i come from a religious family too and this is a huge sin i have commited. men who use hookers are losers and ive done just that :(

at that very moment all my rational thoughts stopped and animal instincts took over. i just followed what she said. i hadnt busted a nut for 2 weeks prior to that and i was ultr horny. my urges took over me :(

i wish it didnt happen. i feel bad about this and i will NEVER EVER EvER do that again :(

Ok, but in a lot of religions you also have tolorance and forgiveness. Ok, so you seriously screwed up. Given. Now... If you really feel bad, and you believe in the whole God thing, you make your amends, and 1) Make sure you don't do it again 2) Make sure you get yourself away from the situation that might cause you to screw up next time. 3) Be honest, but don't dwell too long.

I've only done "minor" stuff in my life (luckily), but if I keep thinking about past sins, worrying about it, obsessing over it, then I'm not going to improve. I repent, I do what I can not to screw up the same way again, and the idea is that I'm forgiven.

If I keep focusing on my past, then I don't watch out for my present or future.

Dust yourself off, tell the truth to your girlfriend and let her know (it's the right thing to do)... apologize, do what you can to make amends (per your faith), and if you truly feel sorry, then don't get into that situation again. If you have to avoid that street at that time of day to get away from it, do what you can to avoid that situation.

I wish you the best of luck with your fight.
 
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