"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've noticed something weird recently. Sometimes when I do an acitivty, I leave with nothing to say and don't really feel anything. Like a week ago, I went go kart racing and it was fun to roll around the track but I left with just nothing to say and kind of emotion-less. Same thing with the new Fast and Furious movie, everyone got all emotional at the end but I kind of just sat there with nothing to say.

It's like it didn't impress me or something. Anyone have a similar experience?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sounds pretty normal, unless it's happening all the time and you're getting depressed. In which case it may be more than just a slump.

The ending to Furious 7 did not get to me at all either... only slightly touching, like when you read a "Thank you" card or something. I was more fascinated by how they managed to put the end together after Paul Walker had died.
 

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Pssshhhh I was like that from the age of 13+ and am still like that. I got a little better after a while, but now I never get extremely emotional over anything, and that's a plus. You'll adapt and get used to it and 'have something to say' so don't worry.

It's probably just a phase anyway.
 

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People who get emotional over the seventh installment of a mindless action movie should probably be deported.
 

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Sounds like fairly standard red-pill symptomology really - i.e. a complete apathy with blue-pill culture.

http://lifeblazing.com/2008/09/22/side-effects-of-the-red-pill/

The reason why diagnoses like 'depression' are rife, espcially among blue-pillers; for example:

'Oh I just upgraded to the latest version of the i-phone only half and hour ago, why do I still feel so intrinsically empty?'

The ongoing tug of war between blue-pill conscious and red-pill subconscious, or vice-versa.

To undertake activities that truly nourish one's soul make the blue-pill culture far more palatable, when we endure it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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