I feel my friend has betrayed me

[gonzo]

A while back I had a lot of trouble over an attention wh0re. She did the usual. She manipulated me, made me think she liked me and then rejected me when I made a move. She then proceeded to blank me, spread rumours that I was a stalker and turned most of the women in my class against me (including someone I had regarded as a good friend). Needless to say, I found it pretty tough having to be in the same class as her for another 4 months.

One of my friends witnessed all this and has told me that he thinks that she is psychologically twisted and has called her a "*****-*****-****".

Now the attention wh0re still wants to upset me by befriending one of my friends. I think she wants to send me a message that even though she treated me like **** my friends will be friendly to her. I gather this is ordinary behaviour for an attention wh0re.

She kept texting him inviting him out with her and he would tell me. I told him that if he ever went out with her after how she had treated me then we could no longer be friends. He nodded.

A couple of days ago, another friend of mine told me that this friend had gone out with the attention wh0re and her friends last week.

I phoned him and he admitted it. I said he had betrayed me and lied to me. So I said we could no longer be friends and have ignored his calls since then.

Did I do the right thing? What would you have done?

 

[h2o]

i had a terrible experience with an attention wh0re. i was "friends" with her for about a year or two. all the while she would tease and was not a good friend...she was a terrible friend, and problem is, i was only looking to be friends with her, nothing more. she would disappear for some time, etc. she would only contact me when she was single, and she would make me fall for the chase. what a b!tch.

later at school, i got to know some guys, and they were textbook afcs. they knew her and hung out with her a lot. when i decided to drop those afc friends who were also *******s btw, she just dropped off the face of the earth.

if there's any one thing i learned, that if you drop your afc friend(s) who hang out with the attention wh0re, it is very unlikely that she will come back to you. that's one way to get rid of them, and i feel it's one of the best things i've done.

so, in that way, you have less to worry about. in your scenario, if this guy was just a light friend, i would say you did the right thing...they're probably afcs anyways unless they're fvcking her.

i would only say what you did is wrong if you let go of a good friend. in that case it would be bad and i wouldn't recommend it. because you usually only have one or two close, good friends, and those are hard to come by.

-gl

 

[gonzo]

Well, I thought he was a good friend.

But would a good friend do what he did?

You know he even told me that he didn't see any problem with it given that he doesn't even like her (I'm talking as a person not sexually). What the ****?!

 

[DJDamage]

I think you did the right thing. Never go for another guy's ex if you still want to be friends with him. Its disrespecting not to mention that he is now collaborating with enemy who seem eager to destroy you.

I suspect your friend just like you is weak and therefore she will manipulate him and feed him lies about you. It sounds like you got a pretty nasty AW on your hands who gets satisfaction from your misery. Your friend will probably end up like you and will feel like the fool in the end. Some people have to learn the hard way.

 

[nishbuk]

That's my number one pet peeve. It's always been since before I came to these forums. If one of my friends goes for one of my exes it's totally disrespecting me.

 

[flexion_]

In general, bro's before ho's applies.

However, you had no relationship with this ho in the first place (this was not an ex) from what you are saying. If it was me I would encourage your friend to go out with her - then the ho problem is solved.

What do you care about what people say about you? Most normal people like to formulate their own impression right? Those that don't aren't worth your time. You are creating the problem by falling for the drama - see if you act all bent out of shape by her then the rumours might appear true based on your behaviour. If you don't care about her then there is no rumour and everyone will sense that...

 

[h2o]

nah...a good friend wouldn't do that

 

[Lost In Translation]

we all have enemies

they vary as to how dangerous they are to us

some man or woman destroying your reputation and stealing your freinds

making your life hell for 4 months

i hope the b*tch gets hit by a bus


i am not your friend and i hope the b*tch gets hit by a bus

why ? why me and not your friend ?

HE'S WEAK


but i got bad news for you. like women in 2005 have alot of problems.

men in 2005 have issues too. most of them are WEAK.

i don't care how big and buff some of the bastards are

on the inside they are PU$$IES


You did the right thing. Your friend betrayed you to a serious enemy of yours.

When the $hit hits the fan you don't want people like him around to let you down.

Good men as friends are very hard to find. I only know 5 that would stand by me against impossible odds in battle and i search high and low for people of integrity to be friends with.

gonzo
You know he even told me that he didn't see any problem with it given that he doesn't even like her

he is scum. he doesn't like her but he hangs out with her. he lies.

AND LISTENS TO HER RUN YOU DOWN VERBALLY !

what a weak piece of $hit !


DJDamage
I think you did the right thing. Never go for another guy's ex if you still want to be friends with him. Its disrespecting not to mention that he is now collaborating with enemy who seem eager to destroy you.

I suspect your friend just like you is weak and therefore she will manipulate him and feed him lies about you. It sounds like you got a pretty nasty AW on your hands who gets satisfaction from your misery. Your friend will probably end up like you and will feel like the fool in the end. Some people have to learn the hard way.

^^^ I agree


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[TxCowboy]

My buddy did it too !

This is VERY true in 2005 ! Its truely amazing how often this goes on , and not many people really speak up about it. Last year, I lost a 13 year old buddy of mine to a crazy f****** b1tc* who wouldnt let him talk to me any more and turned me into a bad guy to the point that he wouldnt hang around me anymore.

What pisses me off is that he stood back and let her dis me and not let him spend time with me if we just wanted to chill or go to a party or something - UNBELIEVABLE.

Good friends are hard to come by today due to all the pu**y-whipping going on out there and guys just let it happen ! This is a major issue going on everywhere and men need to start taking a stand and taking control of their relationship and letting the h0 that THEY are wearing the pants !!!

Bro's b4 h0s !!! - Remember and always ask yourself this question, when you fall in the relationship, whose gonna be there to catch you ????

Peace Out

 

[TxCowboy]

in the previous post

I am 22 and he is 23

13 year long friendship which just ended !!

 

[gonzo]

Thanks for the support. I knew that if I were to accept this disrespect from him I would be as weak as he was. Maybe he will learn from this.

My other friends are giving me grief because we used to hang out as a group and now that is shot to pieces. We were even going to go on holiday together!

 

[KingPinp]

The initial poster is a tool. If he had half a brain he would have his friend **** the attention ***** and then point at her and laugh.

This way everybody is happy

 

[gonzo]

Don't call me a tool please. You don't know the entire situation.

This attention wh0re now has a boyfriend, who is a top-earning lawyer. Something my friend is not. She enjoys playing with men, teasing them but she never goes through with it.

So my ex-friend would have no chance. He is a weak AFC **** scared of his own sister. She would chew him up and spit him out.

That woman is a grade A mind****.

 

[Uncle Matt]

hey. just had the same problem.

DO NOT GO FOR PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH!!!!

lad at my place and i where really tight untill what can only be described as a "fit but she knows it attention seeking multiple cheater" got in the way. she has a bloke but still was flirting and taking the bait and things where going well.
then i found out she is licking my mates spuds. we fell out cus by this time i actually had feelings for the girl and he thought i was getting in on his turff, me n her fell out obviously cus she forgot to mention i was number 3!!! but we gotta work together!!
done just enuf making up so that i can get thru the working day with out any friction. looking for new job and a new girl.

nice one.

totaly feel for ya mate. blinded by the looks, stung by the intent.

 

[Tkman]

If I was in your position I would be more then happy to give her # to my friends so they can get piece of the action.