"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I feel like white girls want to be friends with me because I'm black

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I have no trouble at all getting girls of other races but it seems like the white girls just want to be friends with me. Before they even actually get to know me too. They seem really flirtatious but when it comes down to it they just want to hang out with me. I honestly feel that they just like having black friends. I sure as hell am no chump either, I see some white guys act like chumps and they still get these same girls. It's the same way for my black friends. I've read the bible and everything in there is common sense to me. I just can't understand why they try to be friends with us black guys.

I hope this doesn't offend anybody but I would appreciate some advice and I'm wondering if any other black guys here have the same problem.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe cause the white girls you are trying to get at dont like black guys? If thats the case, leave them alone cause its gonna start ****king with your head...Dont waste time with girls that arnt interested...
 
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Michael - white North American girls are the hardest to figure out. I have no answer for you. Maybe you could tell me why I get tonnes of attention from white girls, but zero attention from blacks or Asians?
 
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Yeah obviosuly but why do they talk to me and ask me questions? When black girls do this with me it usually means they are interested.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hmmmmm. I'd have to think about that one. Is it possible that maybe they are interested in you and you are just not seeing it because of some sort of cultural issues you are incorrectly perceiving?

I'd hate to think they are befriending you out of some sort of 'novelty' because they don't know too many black people.

Or maybe you're holding yourself back because you might think they couldn't possibly be interested....

This issue seems to be a bigger issue in the States than it ever would in Canada or England, so I don't know....

Wow, this is a toughie, I'm not sure, I'm positive this would not be an issue where I am from.
 
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Too many brothas put white women on a pedestal. Stop that now if you're doing that. Also, how do you interact with these women? What environment are you meeting them in?
 
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^Foreels.
 
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in my experience all the white girls who befriend my black friends want to **** them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I tell you what, I'm black and I live in Maryland where there is a good mixture of ethnicities and I've had more white girls come on to me than black or any other race, go figure. *shrug* Part of me thinks that these days its more "popular" to date black guys.
 
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So what makes you think that they only want to be friends? What has happened when you've tried to sarge them?
 
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I get attention from everyone. Maybe they are scared you will *ahem* injure them.


Soul Brother too boku!
 
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