"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I feel like this is a trap question, how would you answer ?

lifemisspent

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The world famous " how long have you been single for " question........

Truth is Im not really a serious relationship kind of guy lol..............how would you answer ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would answer something like: "When you say single you mean how long since I had a LTR or...?" By saying that she understands that you ain't having problem with finding girls cause she'll think you get lucky from times to times! You can say w/e you want about the LTR but if she asks you about the last time you had sex you can simply say, "It hasn't been a long time since then but what does it matter? (and cast a smile)"
 

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lifemisspent said:
The world famous " how long have you been single for " question........

Truth is Im not really a serious relationship kind of guy lol..............how would you answer ?
I would look very serious and confused and say, "Who said I was single?" wait a few seconds then smile, laugh, say "You know I was joking" and change the subject asap. This is a trap question, best to be left unanswered.
 

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A lawyer trick for not answering a question is to attack the definitions of the words in the question, for example, "that depends upon what you mean by single." This derails the question into a side debate about the true definition of single.

When a girl asks how many women I've had sex with, I always steer the conversation into the never-ending debate of whether a midget should count as 1 or 1/2 :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonJuan11

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lifemisspent said:
The world famous " how long have you been single for " question........

Truth is Im not really a serious relationship kind of guy lol..............how would you answer ?
You already have problems with the girl if she's asking you questions like that. She's trying to fault with you already so she can use it against you later. If you met a girl you really liked, wanted to have sex with, wanted to be with 7/7 days during the week, would you ask "how long have you been single?" Would that help getting to know her? Would that help the relationship progress? No. It's ammunition to use it as an excuse later or a current excuse not to date you.
 
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