"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I feel like this girl is too good for me.

Grimple

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Well, she basically is. But I'm trying not to let it bother me.

She flirts with me sometimes, and acts like she is interesting sometimes.. but like idk, sometimes she acts like she doesn't. We have an inside joke about how I "love asians". And she keeps talking about her asian cousin, as if she wants me to hook up with her and stuff. Like she wants me to meet her and stuff.. but I'm not interested in cousin. I'm interested in her.

She tries really hard to make conversation and flirt though, like I just sit back and kind of ignore her. Well I don't ignore her, but I never intiate anything. Except for one thing when I told her i liked her shoes.. ahaha kinda lame. but then she started touching me afterwards so idk..

we talk on myspace. like exchange a comment or two.. like once every 3 days or something. so idk.

i really like her, i think she is a oneitis. what should i do

her best friend = my ex btw.. if that makes a different.. me and my ex are friends though.. but i have a feeling she is going to try and ruin my game.. because she is evil like that
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KillaCam

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You're thinking too much. You know what you've got to do.

Ask her out, you want her, now go get her. Don't do it over MySpace either, please.

There is no real question presented here, nor is it confusing. Just go do it buddy! And drop the inferior stuff, she is not better than you. No one is better than you. Do not think otherwise.

Good luck :up:
 

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KillaCam said:
You're thinking too much. You know what you've got to do.

Ask her out, you want her, now go get her. Don't do it over MySpace either, please.

There is no real question presented here, nor is it confusing. Just go do it buddy! And drop the inferior stuff, she is not better than you. No one is better than you. Do not think otherwise.

Good luck :up:
Ditto, man. You just go out there and ask. If she says no, her mistake.
 

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Yeah man! You gta do it for yourself! If your ex tries anything, she will know! She obviously knows you guys dated so shel ignore comments, just dont let this gurl u like not date you because it would be awkward cus shes mates wit ure ex! Make sure she knows you like her and get her!
 

tucking fypo

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i wouldn't ask her out if your not ready. take your time and donot worry to much. I read a great tip probably the best about how a girl can bassically control your moods and feelings. for instance if she wants to flirt with you and make you happy you will be happy and think everything is cool. but if she starts talking to another guy or something or you wonder and think to much "does she have a bf?" "she was just talking to another guy is she sick of me?" then she bassically has control over you. just pretend she likes you and stick with your game.

i hope that helps

btw are YOU asian?
answer this if you want , what asian is she? just curious ^^V

i know i didnt answer your question but i just wanted to share that quick tip with you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mr_rogers

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Well, either way, I think you better ask her out or something, because pretty soon she's going to lose interest and move on... careful man.
 
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