I feel like I'm in a situation where the answer is right infront of my face...

[Ciel]

... Only I can't see it.

I dig the whole self improvement thing, really. To an extent, I love my life. I have my hobbies, wrestling and olympic lifting, I have my friends(none of which are really the type to want to go out in the daytime, though), I've got enough money to satisfy myself for now, and I'm confident with myself and with women.

But its the summer at the moment, if I'm not at the gym, or at wrestling, or out with friends in the evening, I'm sitting at home eating. My only excuse to meet women is literally prowling the streets in search of them.

I hear about guys who met HB# at Coffee Shop X etc, but I have no reason to really be sitting in a coffee shop on my own anyway.

I don't know if the point I'm trying to make is clear here, but if it isn't I'm more than willing to try and help with that.

What I feel is that, until I move back to University in September, I'm not really meeting anyone except for out on the prowl lol. And I might be wrong about this, but as fun as sarging is, it doesn't feel "right".

 

[JPlaya]

I felt like that this summer too, but I'm in college and it kind of feels the same. I meet more girls now, but not a lot.

 

[PDubb75]

I agree with what you are saying. I never have time to simply go to a coffee shop or walk around the mall. My time is pretty much taken up with work, gym, meals, etc.

I have been lucky lately, as I currently have 4 girls on my radar. However, I have met all 4 of them through social circles, not from "sarging". And all 4 are just FBs, and not relationship type (that can be good or bad, depending).

One issue with this for me, is that when I go out with friends now, there is a good chance one of these 4 will be with us; certain ones with certain groups. So, even when I go out at night, it's difficult for me to go looking for other girls.

This all started when I made an effort to branch out to acquaintances I wasn't very close with. I would start hanging out with new groups of people, and in turn started meeting these girls. Especially since you will be going back to University next month, that may be a good option for you.

 

[Warrior74]

explore your town in the off season. pretend your a tourist there and see what the locals get up to. join some local organizations and mingle. Exit the college bubble.

 

[Ciel]

I'm am exploring town and all that, literally whenever I have free time I just go out and hit the city centre sarging. Thats great and all except half these girls are in a rush or whatever. I'd like to think I'm a good looking guy, and my standards are so high that almost 80% of them have actual boyfriends.

And I do have the time to go sit in a coffee shop, except I see no gain out of it. I'd literally be sitting there waiting for a girl to hit on lol.

At the moment I'm not seeing any girls, I had a chance to see one but disqualified her when she pulled out a cigarette lol.

 

[Ciel]

bump

 

[thinkinblue613]

It's tough to sarge whenever I come back home from college. Half the girls are jailbait or used up (well, the ones I know).

Hmm.. I guess one thing you could do is go to the mall or some place where you know there are girls from not just your town, but the ones in the area.