Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
I'm a freshman at a big party school, I'm a decent looking guy, and I'm still not meeting or interacting with cute girls on a regular basis.
All of my classes except one are big lecture classes (and all the girls in that one class are unattractive) so conversation with girls doesn't occur naturally. I'm in a fraternity, but the brothers are kinda loser-ish so we rarely have cute girls around.
My only real female friend, I haven't hung out with in a long time, and she hangs out with mostly guys, doesn't introduce me to her friends too often.
Lately I've been focusing on hitting the gym and getting good grades...I'm not too concerned about hooking up with girls this semester because there are big parties 3 nights a week over summer, filled with random girls fresh out of high school. Next semester, my fraternity's merging with a larger, better one (i.e. bigger, better parties and more girls), and I might join another club known for having slutty girls and crazy parties.
Anyways, I figured I'd ask you guys if you had any tips on how to create opportunities for myself this semester. Usually the advice for college guys is "Join a club/organization" and "Approach at parties" and "Develop a social circle with girls" and to avoid traditional cold approaches. None of which actually helps my chances of getting laid this semester. I'll be able to attend a couple of parties with girls there, but I hate going all week without flirting with girls only for a few hours of attempting to get a random hookup. I want to meet some girls during the week.
All of my classes except one are big lecture classes (and all the girls in that one class are unattractive) so conversation with girls doesn't occur naturally. I'm in a fraternity, but the brothers are kinda loser-ish so we rarely have cute girls around.
My only real female friend, I haven't hung out with in a long time, and she hangs out with mostly guys, doesn't introduce me to her friends too often.
Lately I've been focusing on hitting the gym and getting good grades...I'm not too concerned about hooking up with girls this semester because there are big parties 3 nights a week over summer, filled with random girls fresh out of high school. Next semester, my fraternity's merging with a larger, better one (i.e. bigger, better parties and more girls), and I might join another club known for having slutty girls and crazy parties.
Anyways, I figured I'd ask you guys if you had any tips on how to create opportunities for myself this semester. Usually the advice for college guys is "Join a club/organization" and "Approach at parties" and "Develop a social circle with girls" and to avoid traditional cold approaches. None of which actually helps my chances of getting laid this semester. I'll be able to attend a couple of parties with girls there, but I hate going all week without flirting with girls only for a few hours of attempting to get a random hookup. I want to meet some girls during the week.