"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I feel like fist fighting

Alvafe

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@Julian

Don't be afraid of violence since its a violent world, understand if a dude know you will not raise your fist to defend yourself he will keep pushing and will just beat you, that saying when one don't want 2 don't fight is a lie, if you don't fight you get beaten, you don't really need to beaten someone, the other dude just need to notice he try something he will get it back that is enough to make several people back down, hence why he says its easy for him to prevent teh fight the other dude notice that and know he try things will get ugly, if the other dude notice you will do nothing, he will just push

@Papa_smu

you are thinking the way kids do, just punch someone but kids are pretty weaker and can hardly do damage(or permanent damage with his fists), not really how it goes, I can't say for him but the whole crowd is never a thing, serious I never notice people around I don't even care what they will say, the thing about fights is to make others don't push you, hence also why I never attack first.


@ImTheDoubleGreatest!

don't matter if they are fake or not really the least you can get is some kind of training so you at least can see a new move and try to learn it, martial arts teach you one thing, your body will only do if you can do it with your mind, any new move or punch or kick or note or working (anything) will only go well if you can do it with your mind, tehn you make it work on real world, so you just need that learn from then what you can and when you think that place teach everything you wanted to learn you find another place
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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