"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alpine

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DON'T join the Legion whatever you do! Although I heard it's a bit soft these days.:D

You need to take control of your life, that would just sign it away.

Take calculated risks by all means, flex that risk muscle, it certainly will help concentrate the mind.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
1) Join the French Foreign Legion. Get paid more than a doctor, and instead of trying to get to Corsica as your post, ask for somewhere more adventurous

2) Become a freelance reporter, go to war-torn countries like Rwanda and Sudan and Leone, and write up amazing stories

3) Start your own business in the most competitive, rapid-changing field. Make enormous risks, never worry about whether you'll make it, and just jump as high as you can

4) Or sit there wondering what life is about.
if you have the guts to really follow through on it, 4) might just be the most worthwhile.
 
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