"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I managed to f*** two different girls in about a 6 hour span yesterday, at a party, now this did end my dry spell of over a month, but still looking back i can't help but feel dirty, does this happen to you guys too?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You slept with a couple of women becasue your body is programmed on a very basic level to impregnate women and pass on your genes.

You feel guilty about it because you, like almost all males now days, have been brainwashed by society based on christian morality to think its wrong to want more than one female and that sex should only happen within a relationship.

A few thousand years of anti-life religious values?
Or a quarter of a million years of evolution which has kept the human species going?

I know which I trust more.

Cure.
 

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Cure is right.

Christianity even if you are an atheist has so poisoned society with its influence that this is why you feel your guilt about sex which is in reality a natural act which you should feel absolutely no guilt over.

When you study Christianity deeply you discover that its disguised communism and extremely anti nature.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KontrollerX said:
When you study Christianity deeply you discover that its disguised communism and extremely anti nature.
Right. And Islam is disguised in Scientology and is extremely anti-pork.
 

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Don't feel accomplished, don't feel disgusted.

Feel like you had an experience and and fun night.
 

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scribblec said:
only if your a faggot
hahah +1

lol that just made me laugh for like 1 minute... So random definitely didnt expect anyone to reply that.
 

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even I laughed at that, and true it does make for a hell of a story.
 

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you feel disgusted for being a sexual male? WTF is going on here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It doesnt leave me feeling disgusted, more naughty, and just sets me in the right mindset for a rampage of naughtiness.
 

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Cinamon said:
It doesnt leave me feeling disgusted, more naughty, and just sets me in the right mindset for a rampage of naughtiness.
But when girls do that, it is disgusting. Its a double standard, and I'm sticking to it.
 

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horaholic said:
But when girls do that, it is disgusting. Its a double standard, and I'm sticking to it.
Why is it disgusting when girls do it? Do you find threesomes and Orgys also disgusting? So long as all participants are adults who fully comprehend their actions its all cool.
 

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Heh, I hate to say it but I actually agree with OP. When I started getting better with women I started to actually feel a bit depressed when I did things like this because I couldn't shake the feeling that I'd done something wrong. Anyway I'm just making the post to let you know you ain't alone in your thinking OP... Nowadays I only bed girls who I've 'known' for a bit of time and feel comfortable that they know what they're getting into.

/just my 2c

NB: I will say that this drops your number of 'lays' drastically but at least it doesn't make me feel that I've exploited someone
 

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The only time I felt disgusted with myself was when I was driving this one night stand home the next morning, knowing fully well that I will never cross paths with her ever again, and managing to just completely exploit her for my own pleasures the night before (even got some buttsecks from the whole ordeal).

When I dropped her off, she had this hopeful look in her eyes that I will keep contact with her, and I felt really, uber guilty and self loathing... but I overcame that feeling pretty soon. Damn I miss college
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cinamon said:
Why is it disgusting when girls do it? Do you find threesomes and Orgys also disgusting? So long as all participants are adults who fully comprehend their actions its all cool.
it's a double standards that's hard to get rid of. I'm the same way, I'll be disgusted with a girl if I find out she's a huge slvt or slept with certain guys. I know I shouldn't be disgusted but I still am.
 

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It might well be the type of girls you f*cked. There are some pretty disgusting chicks out there. Be careful next time.

I think it's natural to feel nasty after sleeping with a skank though, tbh, it's all about gettin the best genetics isn't it? and when you know for a stone hard fact that you can get better poon you'll feel all sh*tty. Time to get some quality alpha's under your belt sir.

peace.
 

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I agree sex is a natural inclination both males and females have. There is no undenying the biology of such a need we experience.

However the fact that it causes pregnancies and can result in life altering sexually transmitted diseases should be proof enough that is something that should be taken seriously...
 
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Don't let people convince you that every man should feel an urge to beat his chest and grunt loudly after doing what you did.

You are yourself, not some archetypal male. Ask yourself whether such actions are in line with your values or not.

Also, there may be cultural implications that are more important than what our "manly instincts" tell us to do.

An extreme example (to show plausibility of culture being more important than instinct)... if you are furious with someone... do you listen to your emotions and pick up your knife and stab him? No... because the cultural implications are more important.

All I'm saying is that often when people suggest the "instinct" argument, it is often extremely over simplified.

Personally, I agree with your initial reactions... but I think it is all up to you and what values you hold for yourself.
 

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So did you catch herpes?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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